Sexuality...

[Lips_Pearls]

Do you even see it?
Sometimes it’s clear cut, sometimes not so..

I'm a 'straight up, red blooded male'... whatever that means..
But, I've enjoyed some other things in life.. It is what it is; enjoying the moment.

Do you class and define sexuality within a jar? Do you label and align with that?
Not saying there's anything wrong whatsoever in doing that, but do you see sexuality as a grid for the want of a better word, where one is in one position and maybe yourself in another?

For example, @Pearls doesn't class herself as anything.. she is just herself and that is just her. She is who she is. x

 

[Stesnaughtyangel]

@Pearls I love that your label is herself- that’s wonderful x

Me i identify as horny & non- conformative

 

[Pearls]

@Pearls I love that your label is herself- that’s wonderful x

Me i identify as horny & non- conformative

I just don’t like labels. I see myself as me. What that is I have no idea but what I do know is more should feel and have the same freedom that I have and embrace. There are way too many labels which I won’t list as it could offend some. I’m just happy being who I am. #labelfree

 

[Tiger]

For example, @Pearls doesn't class herself as anything.. she is just herself and that is just her. She is who she is. x

Best way to be!

Tiger xx

 

[Stesnaughtyangel]

I just don’t like labels. I see myself as me. What that is I have no idea but what I do know is more should feel and have the same freedom that I have and embrace. There are way too many labels which I won’t list as it could offend some. I’m just happy being who I am. #labelfree

it is my own Lable of my own way - i would have said bi but i like you hate labels so i don't conform to anything other that sexy energy- all be it mental or physical if it makes me horny on any level or i find it intriguing then it will allure me and get under skin leading ultimately to me wanting it xxx

 

[Pearls]

it is my own Lable of my own way - i would have said bi but i like you hate labels so i don't conform to anything other that sexy energy- all be it mental or physical if it makes me horny on any level or i find it intriguing then it will allure me and get under skin leading ultimately to me wanting it xxx

Sexual energy. I like that. I don’t see myself sexually as anything apart from an opportunist I guess. Even in every day life I don’t like labels. We are who we are. Xx

 

[Stesnaughtyangel]

well said - we are how we are. A mantra for life xxx love it

 

[Pearls]

well said - we are how we are. A mantra for life xxx love it

Exactly. Xx

 

[Lips_Pearls]

sexy energy

Sexual energy. I like that. I don’t see myself sexually as anything apart from an opportunist I guess. Even in every day life I don’t like labels. We are who we are. Xx

well said - we are how we are. A mantra for life xxx love it

Completely agreed! x

Best way to be!

Yeah.. I think so too! Why live by rules and lines... be who we are, whenever we can be I say!

 

[Stew]

Sexuality for me isn’t a particular style or look, it’s that connection . The look in the eye , the attitude and body language ! Long short , sleek or curvaceous, blonde brunette or redhead ! Al capable of having that certain je ne sais quoi x

 

[Pearls]

Sexuality for me isn’t a particular style or look, it’s that connection . The look in the eye , the attitude and body language ! Long short , sleek or curvaceous, blonde brunette or redhead ! Al capable of having that certain je ne sais quoi x

Exactly. Attractive is in the eye of the beholder

 

[fincon]

Do you even see it?
Sometimes it’s clear cut, sometimes not so..

I'm a 'straight up, red blooded male'... whatever that means..
But, I've enjoyed some other things in life.. It is what it is; enjoying the moment.

Do you class and define sexuality within a jar? Do you label and align with that?
Not saying there's anything wrong whatsoever in doing that, but do you see sexuality as a grid for the want of a better word, where one is in one position and maybe yourself in another?

For example, @Pearls doesn't class herself as anything.. she is just herself and that is just her. She is who she is. x

I don’t even think of it at all; I take it as read, however anyone chooses to describe themselves is fine by me.

For me, though? I know some have a problem with the description ‘cis’; I don’t, mainly I suspect because as a writer I prize precision of language and ‘cis’ is literally the opposite of trans. That’s what it means, and that’s literally all that it means. So I’m male, in a male body, and entirely heterosexual (never had the slightest bi leanings or curiosity). Delighted for those who have their own preferences and explore them, enjoy them, and experience them.

Not me, however.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I don’t even think of it at all; I take it as read, however anyone chooses to describe themselves is fine by me.

For me, though? I know some have a problem with the description ‘cis’; I don’t, mainly I suspect because as a writer I prize precision of language and ‘cis’ is literally the opposite of trans. That’s what it means, and that’s literally all that it means. So I’m male, in a male body, and entirely heterosexual (never had the slightest bi leanings or curiosity). Delighted for those who have their own preferences and explore them, enjoy them, and experience them.

Not me, however.

My brother, we are all built differently and in our own ways..
I am just one who sees people. I say for myself for example, it's pansexuality? I don't even know if it's that. I just see people. If I am drawn, I am drawn. That's it.
But, I will say this; I was extremely homophobic. And I mean extremely. It took a long time to help change the way I thought. Now? I just see people. Not sex, not gender.. not sexuality. Just people.

I like people.
Simple.

 

[fincon]

My brother, we are all built differently and in our own ways..
I am just one who sees people. I say for myself for example, it's pansexuality? I don't even know if it's that. I just see people. If I am drawn, I am drawn. That's it.
But, I will say this; I was extremely homophobic. And I mean extremely. It took a long time to help change the way I thought. Now? I just see people. Not sex, not gender.. not sexuality. Just people.

I like people.
Simple.

I like people… actually, lots of them I don’t. But you know what I mean. I like people… I can even freely acknowledge this is a nice person, that is a ‘conventionally attractive’ person... I just don’t find anyone other than a female sexually attractive.

 

[Pearls]

My brother, we are all built differently and in our own ways..
I am just one who sees people. I say for myself for example, it's pansexuality? I don't even know if it's that. I just see people. If I am drawn, I am drawn. That's it.
But, I will say this; I was extremely homophobic. And I mean extremely. It took a long time to help change the way I thought. Now? I just see people. Not sex, not gender.. not sexuality. Just people.

I like people.
Simple.

#labelfree

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I like people… actually, lots of them I don’t. But you know what I mean. I like people… I can even freely acknowledge this is a nice person, that is a ‘conventionally attractive’ person... I just don’t find anyone other than a female sexually attractive.

It's cool... It really is, we are who we are should never have to explain to anyone. Aye?

 

[Deleted member 11094]

I see sexual preferences as a spectrum.
Sexuality can mean what you label yourself, also it can be how you express your sexual energy.

So I would fit into the bisexual label, or pansexual. The labels are more for the outside world, having no focus labels is way more chill.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I see sexual preferences as a spectrum.
Sexuality can mean what you label yourself, also it can be how you express your sexual energy.

So I would fit into the bisexual label, or pansexual. The labels are more for the outside world, having no focus labels is way more chill.

Yeah agree with you there. It’s for those who just don’t get it, I guess. X

 

[TogNMuse]

I like the term Hetroflexible, no ones 100% straight

 

[Pearls]

I like the term Hetroflexible, no ones 100% straight

Bang on

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I like the term Hetroflexible, no ones 100% straight

Bang on

As someone said to us recently; spaghetti is straight until it's cooked. x

 

[TogNMuse]

As someone said to us recently; spaghetti is straight until it's cooked. x

Straight until wet - normally applies to women who try and deny their bi-side

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Straight until wet - normally applies to women who try and deny their bi-side

Exactly that..

 

[fincon]

Bang on

*cough*

It's cool... It really is, we are who we are should never have to explain to anyone. Aye?

 

[Lips_Pearls]

*cough*

It’s more in reference to the terminology.