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Pearls

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18 July 2015
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Also folks don’t arrange meeting folk that you are not 100% sure about. There are so many dangers out there as you know.

Another thing, fakes usually stick to the same routine. They will be active at certain times of the days only and tend to be quiet at weekends due to hubbys, wives, partners being about. You’ll spot them as they never meet and if they do then it will be day time.
We have witnessed dangers from many angles, even down to being banged up in a cell from a wife who had no idea what the hubby was up to.
This scene has no room for fakes, it’s far to dangerous and with new laws becoming stricter with catfishing, it’s only a matter of time before they get caught very quickly.

The likes of EmmaB is very significant to us as we spoke to the genuine person behind the pics, her photos were stolen by an ex and used as revenge porn, he wanted to screen shot all her activity to blackmail. Now we have better detection methods but this woman was an innocent victim and we did pass all details on to relevant authorities. What become of it we don’t know.

So to all accounts claiming to be female, who’s photos have you nicked?
In doing so then you are incriminating yourself by using them.

Hope this helps folks.
 

Therapon

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Intresting thread and comments. So from a personal point of view I read all post and apart from the obvious fakes I see others who pay lip service to what they see as being the consenus of the majority, or play the game to entice others but in reality they do not do what they say they do. So are they fakes or do we accept people will lie in order to get sex or the promise of sex.
 
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Intresting thread and comments. So from a personal point of view I read all post and apart from the obvious fakes I see others who pay lip service to what they see as being the consenus of the majority, or play the game to entice others but in reality they do not do what they say they do. So are they fakes or do we accept people will lie in order to get sex?

I can only speak for me and the people I’ve met , but as I’ve said before I take stringent methods to try and ensure non fakery , I don’t lie and anything I say I’ve done or can do or will do I follow up on in real life.
If people’s consciences allow them to big themselves up , then they are heading for a fall should they ever actually meet some one !
 
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Another thing, fakes usually stick to the same routine. They will be active at certain times of the days only and tend to be quiet at weekends due to hubbys, wives, partners being about. You’ll spot them as they never meet and if they do then it will be day time.
Well if anybody thinks iam a fake i will gladly write anything they want on a bit of paper showing my mug and date. As pearls says in the above post about certain times i can only come on at certain times due to personel reasons as i have now got to care for my mother and also thats why the boat is on hold :( . But why would you pretend it baffels the f**k out of me i dont want to be getting pervy messages from hairy asrsed men iam a pussy n tits man all the way... ;)
 
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Spotting a fake from 30 miles away in thick fog! Easy here... if you see someone you like, and get chatting to them... all seems to go well, then ask for a mobile number to confirm they are actually genuine and not some random bloke pulling one off whilst typing.

Usually works for us, either we get a number, of the chat goes dead.

People have ‘play’ phones these days, so it’s not gonna be your personal number your giving out... though we are happy to give ours to anyone that asks, if they turn nasty then just block the number.... simples :)
 
Pearls

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Spotting a fake from 30 miles away in thick fog! Easy here... if you see someone you like, and get chatting to them... all seems to go well, then ask for a mobile number to confirm they are actually genuine and not some random bloke pulling one off whilst typing.

Usually works for us, either we get a number, of the chat goes dead.

People have ‘play’ phones these days, so it’s not gonna be your personal number your giving out... though we are happy to give ours to anyone that asks, if they turn nasty then just block the number.... simples :)
Who the hell would want a play phone?
They must have more money than senses for a start, we can honestly say in all the years we have been in this scene, we have never had to have a phone call to confirm if the person is real. We must be doing something right I guess. (y)
 
Pearls

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Well if anybody thinks iam a fake i will gladly write anything they want on a bit of paper showing my mug and date. As pearls says in the above post about certain times i can only come on at certain times due to personel reasons as i have now got to care for my mother and also thats why the boat is on hold :( . But why would you pretend it baffels the f**k out of me i dont want to be getting pervy messages from hairy asrsed men iam a pussy n tits man all the way... ;)
You must be fake col. I reckon a woman in disguise :D
 
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Who the hell would want a play phone?
They must have more money than senses for a start, we can honestly say in all the years we have been in this scene, we have never had to have a phone call to confirm if the person is real. We must be doing something right I guess. (y)

Generally speaking this is the easiest way to show all people are genuine... I may be wrong though haha

Only a handful of people here have actually met me and the good lady wife... so to the others we could come across as ‘fakes’ so we will always offer a phone call to show all is good and we are in fact husband and wife, willing to play and make new sexy friends.
 
Pearls

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Generally speaking this is the easiest way to show all people are genuine... I may be wrong though haha

Only a handful of people here have actually met me and the good lady wife... so to the others we could come across as ‘fakes’ so we will always offer a phone call to show all is good and we are in fact husband and wife, willing to play and make new sexy friends.
I get that but isn’t a verification system enough to know they are real?
 
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Pearls

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Yes that can be true, but for those that have not been verified, it’s a little more difficult (y)
I guess we are lucky here that no one has had a meet that’s been fake. We must be doing something right eh (y)
Well apart from that one arrest :eek: but that was a one off :D
 
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You must be fake col. I reckon a woman in disguise :D
Wished i was just think of all the fun i would have ie crinkly fingeres with playing with my pussy and massive boobs with all the rubbing and feeling ide give them lol
 

Therapon

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What we all need to remember is that any verification is only good at that time, personal circumstances can easily change.