Where Are They Now?

[Mr and Mrs Marmite]

Where’s all the old members from when this site first started out?

Looking around i can’t see any of the people we recommended, from a club that name will never be spoken of again

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Where’s all the old members from when this site first started out?

Looking around i can’t see any of the people we recommended, from a club that name will never be spoken of again

Why no mention of the club name again?
A lot of people have come and gone. Either they’ve separated and gone their own ways, give up on the lifestyle or sadly - a fact - that they leave due to inactivity near them.

The latter is one that irks me. If people won’t stick around because of lack of others, then areas and hotspots will never truly build and flourish.
But yeah people move on, give up or separate.

 

[Mr and Mrs Marmite]

It mentioning the club name as it brings back memories... they closed 31/12/2018

A shame the owners never wanted to keep in touch, seeing as we was their most loyal costumers, with 199 visits

 

[Lips_Pearls]

It mentioning the club name as it brings back memories... they closed 31/12/2018

A shame the owners never wanted to keep in touch, seeing as we was their most loyal costumers, with 199 visits

Yes I knew they'd closed but thought there may have been another reason or so..
A shame. That Mr Nobody eejit outside did them no favours!

Some of the older accounts do pop on now and again but otherwise.. not much. It's a shame as there have been many a good nights here, threads, posts, chats and chatroom fun etc. But people move on I guess.
We have some really interesting goodies en-route. Hopefully that will help too.

 

[Mr and Mrs Marmite]

The old twat is still outside on a Friday and Saturday night... and no it’s not me trying to get in! Haha

 

[Lips_Pearls]

The old twat is still outside on a Friday and Saturday night... and no it’s not me trying to get in! Haha

Seriously!? He's STILL there? What a tool!

 

[Mr and Mrs Marmite]

Seriously!? He's STILL there? What a tool!

It’s funny really.... he supports them still even though they are closed down... he advertises they are still there at the weekends

 

[Lips_Pearls]

It’s funny really.... he supports them still even though they are closed down... he advertises they are still there at the weekends

What a knob jockey. He is one guy, that needs help.

 

[fincon]

The latter is one that irks me. If people won’t stick around because of lack of others, then areas and hotspots will never truly build and flourish.

I understand both their attitude, and yours.

Yes, of course, it takes people hanging around when there’s no one near them to build a scene, but I also understand the ‘banging my head against a brick wall’ attitude as well, particularly when it’s single fellas.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I understand both their attitude, and yours.

Yes, of course, it takes people hanging around when there’s no one near them to build a scene, but I also understand the ‘banging my head against a brick wall’ attitude as well, particularly when it’s all types of accounts that makes the scene doable. .

Fixed it for you.

 

[fincon]

Fixed it for you.

Naah, because in the numbers game, the single M are the optional extras, and also the majority, so it’s they who get the ‘theres no one around, bigger this for a lark’ first, and most strongly.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

optional extras

Though perhaps true, I personally am not keen on seeing it like this. It's almost disposable. Such is life though...
You are correct of course.. to a degree. (IMHO only)

 

[fincon]

Though perhaps true, I personally am not keen on seeing it like this. It's almost disposable. Such is life though...
You are correct of course.. to a degree. (IMHO only)

I don’t mean to pretend that it’s how I like to see it; it’s always been a numbers game, though, both in fact and perception.

My experience is that when people put on a party, the single M slots are filled the fastest. When I went to spas, the good ones limited the numbers of single M to a sensible ratio. If they didn’t… you’d end up with half a dozen couples, half a dozen single F...and two dozen or more single M.

I once went to Rios early on in my swinging life… a dozen couples, four single F (two were in the crowd I went with)… and more than 30 single M.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I don’t mean to pretend that it’s how I like to see it; it’s always been a numbers game, though, both in fact and perception.

My experience is that when people put on a party, the single M slots are filled the fastest. When I went to spas, the good ones limited the numbers of single M to a sensible ratio. If they didn’t… you’d end up with half a dozen couples, half a dozen single F...and two dozen or more single M.

I once went to Rios early on in my swinging life… a dozen couples, four single F (two were in the crowd I went with)… and more than 30 single M.

I know what you mean and of course agree. I just don't like it.
I recall asking someone, who won't be mentioned, what their policy was RE single gents. The response I won't forget in a hurry; "Positive discrimination. It's how we manage it".
Not cool.

 

[Stew]

So many passed through the portals over the years , I guess some had fallouts , some had changes of circumstances, some just wandered off, will the halcyon day’s return ? One here certainly hopes so we had mad mental crazy filthy fun !