First time cuckquean experience

[BadChilli]

So, we had our first open experience tonight. Wife watched whilst I had a blow job. Tensions were high. We didn't know how we would both react.
I was very nervous how my wife would feel which made it uncomfortable to start with. Lots of eye contact with her made me realise that she was ok with it and i started to enjoy it.
The more I enjoyed it the more I could see she was getting turned on. We can both see how addictive this can be.
For our first time this was a learning curve for us. It wasn't as hot as our fantasy but I think the stress affected it quite a bit.
We now know that jealousy wasn't an issue and feel next time will be a lot more relaxed and enjoyable.
Anyone else have a similar first time experience or can offer any advice?
**B** & xxCxx

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Great to hear you’ve made the first move and it will only get better xxx :0)) T

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Everything we have done has always been together but you do get moments during a meet where you both stop and watch each other giving or receiving pleasure..it is really erotic and does enhance the experience..I think this is all part of the enjoyment..glad you enjoyed your first encounter..next time you will be more relaxed..there will still be nerves there but that’s perfectly normal..the main thing is that you enjoy every experience..W.. ? ?

 

[BadChilli]

Everything we have done has always been together but you do get moments during a meet where you both stop and watch each other giving or receiving pleasure..it is really erotic and does enhance the experience..I think this is all part of the enjoyment..glad you enjoyed your first encounter..next time you will be more relaxed..there will still be nerves there but that’s perfectly normal..the main thing is that you enjoy every experience..W.. ? ?

We will definitely be more relaxed next time. I think it was the case that hubby was worried about me, how I was feeling and how I would react. And I was concerned because I could see he was concerned. But when he realised that I was actually enjoying it, he relaxed and that’s when I started to have those sexual feelings ?
XxChilli xx

 

[SteveandDebs]

Just my 2c but I'd be wary of adopting the cuck label too quickly, it could just be voyeurism, knowing that the other partner is having a great time time and that you facilitated that is a turn on in itself

 

[BadChilli]

Just my 2c but I'd be wary of adopting the cuck label too quickly, it could just be voyeurism, knowing that the other partner is having a great time time and that you facilitated that is a turn on in itself

Ah ok. So your saying that I could just enjoy seeing sexual acts in front of me and find it even hotter if hubby was involved?
All these terms are new to me e.g cuckquean, voyeurism. We are still learning.
Out of curiosity though, what do you mean exactly about being wary??
XxChillixx

 

[BadChilli]

Ah ok. So your saying that I could just enjoy seeing sexual acts in front of me and find it even hotter if hubby was involved?
All these terms are new to me e.g cuckquean, voyeurism. We are still learning.
Out of curiosity though, what do you mean exactly about being wary??
XxChillixx

Also, I’m not true Cuck. I know next time I will definitely be joining in ?
From our first experience, I now know I enjoy watching hubby and that I’m ok with it. But next time though I want to be part of the pleasure? ?
XxChillixx

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Just my 2c but I'd be wary of adopting the cuck label too quickly, it could just be voyeurism, knowing that the other partner is having a great time time and that you facilitated that is a turn on in itself

Agree being a voyeur is different to cuckold, like to watch your partner enjoy themselves xxx :0)) T

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Also, I’m not true Cuck. I know next time I will definitely be joining in ?
From our first experience, I now know I enjoy watching hubby and that I’m ok with it. But next time though I want to be part of the pleasure? ?
XxChillixx

That’s the ticket get in and enjoy yourself as well xxx :0)) T

 

[SteveandDebs]

Out of curiosity though, what do you mean exactly about being wary??
XxChillixx

You've answered this with the following

Also, I’m not true Cuck. I know next time I will definitely be joining in ?
From our first experience, I now know I enjoy watching hubby and that I’m ok with it. But next time though I want to be part of the pleasure? ?
XxChillixx

If you are a cuck then you will see the other person as superior, it will be them that decide what you do (with your partner maybe). The impression I get from your posts is that dynamic wouldn't suit you at all

There is nothing wrong with enjoying watching.

 

[BadChilli]

Thanks for all the insight people. We have come to the conclusion that wifey is not really a cuck. She really enjoyed watching me have pleasure and the turn on for her was seeing me enjoy myself and actually seeing something sexual. Who doesn't get turned on by watching sex!
Like she said, we are just learning all the terminology. She doesn't get a kick out of being jealous or being humiliated so I think the term cuck just doesn't apply.
If anything she is discovering her more dominant side and really enjoyed making this happen and feeling like she controlled the whole situation.
This experience was just a test to see what emotions we would have. She didn't feel jealous and I didn't feel it put our relationship at risk. It hasn't changed how we feel about each other at all. This is a big step forward for us.
**B**

 

[MP386]

Thanks for all the insight people. We have come to the conclusion that wifey is not really a cuck. She really enjoyed watching me have pleasure and the turn on for her was seeing me enjoy myself and actually seeing something sexual. Who doesn't get turned on by watching sex!
Like she said, we are just learning all the terminology. She doesn't get a kick out of being jealous or being humiliated so I think the term cuck just doesn't apply.
If anything she is discovering her more dominant side and really enjoyed making this happen and feeling like she controlled the whole situation.
This experience was just a test to see what emotions we would have. She didn't feel jealous and I didn't feel it put our relationship at risk. It hasn't changed how we feel about each other at all. This is a big step forward for us.
**B**

The main objective is to have fun and enjoy yourselves, don’t worry about labels ....

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Thanks for all the insight people. We have come to the conclusion that wifey is not really a cuck. She really enjoyed watching me have pleasure and the turn on for her was seeing me enjoy myself and actually seeing something sexual. Who doesn't get turned on by watching sex!
Like she said, we are just learning all the terminology. She doesn't get a kick out of being jealous or being humiliated so I think the term cuck just doesn't apply.
If anything she is discovering her more dominant side and really enjoyed making this happen and feeling like she controlled the whole situation.
This experience was just a test to see what emotions we would have. She didn't feel jealous and I didn't feel it put our relationship at risk. It hasn't changed how we feel about each other at all. This is a big step forward for us.
**B**

Bravo! It’s all about learning about each other, enjoying and just going with the flow. ?

 

[BadChilli]

It all goes against the conditioning we had growing up so it's taking us a while to adapt.
We just want to have fun but there are lots of issues we needed to sort through first.
So far the experience hasn't made any difference to us and that's the most important thing. Us as a couple is paramount.
Its exciting and we are learning so much about each other.
Thanks for all your advice. This may all seem quite trivial to the veterans on here but everyone has to start somewhere!
**B**