Is it enough?

[Lips_Pearls]

Is adding some pics, following some accounts and then saying; “we’re looking for xxxABC” enough to attract attention enough to warrant a liaison without doing much else?
What about those who pop up every so often to only say they don’t get meets?

If no, what would you say is the minimum bar that you’d reach for this to happen?

 

[Downunder]

For me, a bit shorter driving distance than 17,000 Kim's

 

[Lips_Pearls]

For me, a bit shorter driving distance than 17,000 Kim's

Yes but you’re the definite exception to the rule here ?

 

[MP386]

Sure we’d all like it to be that easy ,but it isn’t...as is always said you have to put the work in to get the results...
Which is true,sure for some it’s definitely easier than others ..
Not sure what a minimum would be ,each case is individual I guess if you have that tanned ,six pack Adonis look probably going to be easier than those (me) ageing greying ,slightly wobbly bits ,moobs etc ...

 

[Deleted member 11852]

If you want meets you have to make the effort to get them..this means countless messages back and two with people,,chatting and getting to know them ..letting them know your interested in meeting up with them..don’t be disheartened if it doesn’t happen straight away..they could just be going through a real kicking of real life like us at the moment but that doesn’t mean we don’t want to meet anyone..just not till March..if we are interested in someone we make the effort and get in contact with them..you have to be pro active,it doesn’t just turn up in your inbox..W..

 

[Brumcouple2013]

Had to read the thread a couple of times, before deciding to post. Why?
I guess we could be one of those who pop on and post about the lack of meets. When we first joined here we were very active, made friends and tried to contribute as much as possible. Then we took a break for 12 months. But came back here, and still love the place. Still try to contribute, but not made so many friends. Many old friends have moved on. So have struggled.

But we do understand, you only get out of it, what you put in. Yes pictures help, but more than sexy pictures of your lady. A good mix is needed. Also we think, a good profile write up, helps. Then , time, time to build a relationship on line with those who catch your eye or show an interest in you. Plus make an effort to attend socials etc. All of this isn’t easy, with the balance of real life and the ups and downs that it brings.
That how we see it, others may disagree, and we could also be wrong.

 

[Deleted member 16044]

For me, a bit shorter driving distance than 17,000 Kim's

right on the nose
I do talk to people in private also
I try to join in without getting told off
I am off to the social next weekend
I am in have a break mode from thinking about my answer to a report I have to do for TMA02 for my module to the degree I am taking and I do not lie nor bullshit anyone nor even in my exam lol x no plagurism you see no time for cheating

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Okay... so...
Let's not forget, the site is very diverse so there is always going to be something that may resonate with you, but is not directly about anyone specifically either. ? x

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Is adding some pics, following some accounts and then saying; “we’re looking for xxxABC” enough to attract attention enough to warrant a liaison without doing much else?
What about those who pop up every so often to only say they don’t get meets?

If no, what would you say is the minimum bar that you’d reach for this to happen?

many of you lovely folk are hardly next door so not that easy to come and meet
and I like to know someone first before I get into any kind of meet
just a few messages does not do it for me either

 

[Deleted member 16044]

For me, a bit shorter driving distance than 17,000 Kim's

do you drive aeroplanes lol
australia is beautiful place
it is on my holiday list some time in my retirement future

 

[Lips_Pearls]

do you drive aeroplanes lol
australia is beautiful place
it is on my holiday list some time in my retirement future

He literally, actually does fly. x

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Is adding some pics, following some accounts and then saying; “we’re looking for xxxABC” enough to attract attention enough to warrant a liaison without doing much else?
What about those who pop up every so often to only say they don’t get meets?

If no, what would you say is the minimum bar that you’d reach for this to happen?

Pictures do not really cut it for me
I do not want to be told either that I am here just to fill time
I came here to not hide behind the computer either
Yes, it is nice to be active on here
I not been here years like most of you regulars
I always try to find time to meet others
I think for me it will be hard to find someone next door because many of you live a fair way from me but that does not mean I do not meet people or anti social
It is a place to talk to people and engage with most people because we lead busy lives.
Money too is key factor, learning to budget and finding cheaper places to stay unless I was feeling flush lol no not hot flush or toilet flush x x
Makes it easier for me to get to places as travelling is not cheap but if I want someone I take that risk provided my budget says YES lol

 

[Deleted member 16044]

He literally, actually does fly. x

alright alright I keep my mouth shut next time lol x

 

[Deleted member 16044]

many of you lovely folk are hardly next door so not that easy to come and meet
and I like to know someone first before I get into any kind of meet
just a few messages does not do it for me either

nor do those silly random flirt messages
yes this is a site to find people to have sex with but not straight away
turns me right off
pushy people stand no chance with me x

 

[Downunder]

How can you tell who is a pilot at a party.............don't worry, he will come and tell you

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Okay... so...
Let's not forget, the site is very diverse so there is always going to be something that may resonate with you, but is not directly about anyone specifically either. ? x

plus I am always open minded
I do try things once and if I do not like or think try again to see if I like
club wise or sex wise that is
right
I must fly x x