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Hello welcome to SS hope you have fun being here...
Hi there, thanks, looking for 2020 to be a year of a lot more exploration and fun.
Cheers, hope so yeah. Already found an event I'd be interested in, though it is in London, but good to know it's there.
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A pleasure. Yes great photos! That is what life is about my friend, getting out there, doing it and enjoying life.Cheers, glad you like them
Exactly no point waiting for it, go out and get it!
Since 4th December so 51 days so far, keys are frozen and regular, but random checks are made. So I can meet others, but it stays on, so have various things I can use including strap on if I'm not being used and they want something so I can do all that, whilst remaining locked.
You are doing amazing! You should feel proud of that, but it’s not over yet no doubt. Good for you. Enjoy your restrictions.
Thanks, yeah I am
cheers.Well they are restrictions, but still able to do a lot and have a lot of fun so there's only really 1 restriction.
That’s great though yes? Anyway, I feelThanks, yeah I am
Well they are restrictions, but still able to do a lot and have a lot of fun so there's only really 1 restriction.
I’m drawing attention to this and it’s about you not your kinks per-se.
You’ve seen an event? Is is London @BiZarreEvents ?
Hey drawing attentions to kinks is never a bad thing. Oh yeah, it is great, and through all the fun, still a reminder that your not in control. Oh no hadn't seen that one it was another kink of mine a piss event. I knew of 1 in London, but the other sounds great.
PS to others I don't need to do all the stuff I'm into I like them all in equal measure and can adapt. Or just do Vanilla if needs be
. PSA over ??
Have just had a proper look it's at the same place! Well when next in London if either are on will go along and see what it's like.
Totally. It’s okay! All good.
this is it, see HRH, aka The War Office (my wife) is naturally my submissive, but when all is said and done - she’s the one in control as you are. You are the one deciding who makes the decisions. This is real control of you, empowerment. That’s amazing!
While I’m Dominant and more naturally Dominant, I’m also not one to control or abuse. I feel that there’s a lot of misunderstanding between them all.
Yeah Nina and Aiden are lovely people. So supportive and friendly. You’d love their events I feel.
Exactly, I can do both dom or sub if needs be, part of that means I understand and, especially for new people, can describe the things they may feel. But your totally right the sub has all the control they can end a session as quick as they like if something doesn't feel right. What I like to do is outline or give a list of stuff that might happen, but not necessarily, that way they can agree or disagree with things and the rest can still be a surprise.
Yeah the amount of "Doms" and "Dommes" that don't understand that sort of thing. And send messages with you will do xyz or you will do this be I even think about xyz ?
? no. Think they don't realise that the kink community can be quite close knit and things get round quickly.That's great to know, looking at the site it looks like I would.