What’s your favourite encounter..

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MOTM

24 October 2018
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So sexy peeps..what’s your favourite encounter do you prefer to get to know people and have pre arranged meets somewhere private..

or do you prefer the club scene where you just get it on with complete strangers who you will never have to see again..

personally for us we like arranged meets..we have only been to one club,,xtasia with the site last year..we actually felt uncomfortable walking past people playing in there,,it felt like you were intruding..probably sounds stupid being in that environment but we’re so much more relaxed playing in the privacy of a hotel room..maybe it’s just us...

over to you naughty lot..??? ? ? ?
 
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LizandChris

We have tried both, when we first started it was going to a club, we enjoyed the immediacy of it, start playing and if someone approaches you like the look of smile and invite them to join, but ultimately unsatisfying, now, we much prefer to meet someone for a social and if everything is good, we're happy to play after a drink and chat, sometimes it may take a couple of meets to decide but that's where we are now
 
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MOTM

18 July 2015
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Much prefer meeting in private. We made the decision very early on that the club scene wasn’t for us regarding anything apart from socialising. What happens after the club is where it’s at for us.
I couldn’t see us in play rooms for all sorts of reasons, we love to meet people, dance have a good evening and if we do meet up then we would carry on the night back at the hotel or arrange to meet at ours. ???
 
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Much prefer meeting in private. We made the decision very early on that the club scene wasn’t for us regarding anything apart from socialising. What happens after the club is where it’s at for us.
I couldn’t see us in play rooms for all sorts of reasons, we love to meet people, dance have a good evening and if we do meet up then we would carry on the night back at the hotel or arrange to meet at ours. ???
Spot on :)
 
24 June 2019
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Hoping you BBers are going to pop our positive socialising cherry in a couple of weekends. We were stung by that first social meet we had where the couple were not quite as they portrayed themselves and haven’t been back in that pre arranged scenario since.

Saying that we love chatting in the hot tubs in clubs before play so I guess that’s a social sort of scenario rather than a dive straight in.

Still early days for us ...
 
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Much prefer meeting in private. We made the decision very early on that the club scene wasn’t for us regarding anything apart from socialising. What happens after the club is where it’s at for us.
I couldn’t see us in play rooms for all sorts of reasons, we love to meet people, dance have a good evening and if we do meet up then we would carry on the night back at the hotel or arrange to meet at ours. ???
those were my days in the normal club scene
single then and single now
I went out to party and be with friends
dancing and socialising with friends
anyone that wanted me was an after thought and a chat perhaps or later if I really got on with them
bit hard in those days lived at home
the club scene died round here need to bring it back instead of all these dead beat cafes
and my first club scene was at eureka's
I might have had a snog or two and a dance with the person I was with but anything else did not happen I did not fancy him that way
and it is really way out in the sticks and nothing to cry over I thought it was poky
 
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I shall have to organise something for my 50th this year though not sure what yet but get your thinking caps on x
 
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