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CocoDD

CocoDD

10 September 2020
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Can what you do for a living affect you in this scene? For what ever reason like work load, what you do or how people treat you.
For example if you are a traffic warden do people give you abuse in the scene and keep a wide berth. ( them sneaky sods are never off duty) ?
For me.
Couples keep a very wide berth and treat me as if I have leprosy, why all wives think I’m going to pounce on their hubby is beyond me.
women get to know me and want to know everything about sex workers.
Guys, if I turn them down then they’re itching to find out how much I charge and try to book me.

So over to you. Can your work cause issues for you in swinging.
 
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mrclouse

mrclouse

I am Batman ?
28 March 2016
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when i first started working i was completely afraid of going to an interview and seeing someone from the scene there, but it doesnt seem to affect me as much i do find that there are alot of people from computing into this though so nice to have something to chat about other than sex at times?
 
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MP386

MOTM

MP386

9 November 2015
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CocoDD said:
Can what you do for a living affect you in this scene? For what ever reason like work load, what you do or how people treat you.
For example if you are a traffic warden do people give you abuse in the scene and keep a wide berth. ( them sneaky sods are never off duty) ?
For me.
Couples keep a very wide berth and treat me as if I have leprosy, why all wives think I’m going to pounce on their hubby is beyond me.
women get to know me and want to know everything about sex workers.
Guys, if I turn them down then they’re itching to find out how much I charge and try to book me.

So over to you. Can your work cause issues for you in swinging.
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I’m a Builder so most people hate builders with a passion ,messy ,disruptive, stress causing , bum cracks .....,
It can affect weekends when I have to work so not every weekend is free , I don’t recall anyone blanking me because I’m a builder but no ones had the nuts to tell me to my face ...

Oh and @CocoDD have you turned me down yet? :lol: So what do you ........,:whistle::whistle:
 
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MyKinkyWorld

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MyKinkyWorld

Handsome and Debonair
25 November 2017
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In Italy people have an old mindset so I'm not used to saying what I do for a living in fact my first job doesn't match the swinging scene. My new second job (tbh the job I'd love to do as main job) links to the lifestyle very well instead (it's not about sex if you are wondering....). Anyway only rarely I am afraid of meeting in normal life people who I have met on the scene, because they are swingers like me, even though they might not be good at being discreet as me....
The paramount issue here in Italy is the old mentality in general and this is the region because I would like to move to somewhere else.
Enjoy, sexy and naughty people.
 
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SteveandDebs

SteveandDebs

9 January 2018
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CocoDD said:
Can what you do for a living affect you in this scene? For what ever reason like work load, what you do or how people treat you.
For example if you are a traffic warden do people give you abuse in the scene and keep a wide berth. ( them sneaky sods are never off duty) ?
For me.
Couples keep a very wide berth and treat me as if I have leprosy, why all wives think I’m going to pounce on their hubby is beyond me.
women get to know me and want to know everything about sex workers.
Guys, if I turn them down then they’re itching to find out how much I charge and try to book me.

So over to you. Can your work cause issues for you in swinging.
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We've turned down a meet before with another (otherwise very shaggable) couple because they let slip that they were both council parking parasites. I can't think of any other occupation that would cause us to do that.

Our jobs haven't really affected swinging much.
 
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