That’s the difficult part of reading signs just because they may interact on threads ,just because they may answer a message doesn’t mean to say it’s anything more I guess you have to be blunt and ask ... not that I’m brave enough to .. certainly won’t be ankle socks ,pants,aftershave or anything else that will swing it .... if the compliments don’t work or the messages go from a few lines to the odd word then probably the time to get out of Dodge ...I meant let them know you fancy em