MOTM
Neither do I, my friend.I don’t get them so can’t answer
Fancy a chat
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MOTM
Sometimes when I see members' reactions I wonder what I have really written in my post! ? .... I hope nothing too far from what I meant ?
Honestly? It depends on my mood. I know that’s bad but it depends on whether I’m feeling mischievous, flirty, friendly or can’t be arsed. My response to an unimaginative one liner will reflect the above!
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Deleted member 18050
In my experience it doesn’t matter how polite or how long or short you make your opening message ,Whether you compliment their media say much you like their profile or even talk about the weather
99% of the time the message is ignored The other 1% is a no thanks or even had F*** off before
So “Fancy a chat” is much easier than typing a long winded message to end up with the same response
99% of the time the message is ignored The other 1% is a no thanks or even had F*** off before
So “Fancy a chat” is much easier than typing a long winded message to end up with the same response
There In lies the problem! You can’t be bothered!
Now, look at this from their perspective, you’re a complete unknown person to them & you’ve done nothing to separate yourself from everyone else!
Add to that the fact they’ve probably received 50, 100, or more messages exactly like that!
Your message has now just got lost in a sea of blandness.
What incentive? is there for them to respond!
Also helps to read their profile first. Thought my luck was in my when I received a PM saying "I'm really interested in you" , sounds great except it's from a straight male 
Ah well maybe I'll get a PM from a lady next time.
Ah well maybe I'll get a PM from a lady next time.
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Deleted member 19022
Ok so I reply to most messages and am polite in doing so, as a female in the scene I get quite a few messages and within the first couple of hours of joining I must have had twenty to get through. I tend to figure out who a person is by the second message but my first thought is to “fancy a chat” is “about what” I think to myself if you’ve just met a complete stranger then your opening words wouldn’t be “fancy a chat” especially when you couldn’t possibly know anything about them. The actual words don’t make any sense to me. Surely you have to have a little more than that? Or maybe not!
MOTM
You’ve hit the nail on the head there with the actual phrase itself.
Fancy a chat.
This is supposed to be a social site and the forums can really show a lot about a person by the replies and how they behave. Your simple thread for example can actually be a good start for a message if you think about it. Now I know you like shoes and coffee
that would be my base starter 
And perfumeNow I know you like shoes and coffee
don’t forget that Tiger xx
Spot on ??You’ve hit the nail on the head there with the actual phrase itself.
Fancy a chat.
This is supposed to be a social site and the forums can really show a lot about a person by the replies and how they behave. Your simple thread for example can actually be a good start for a message if you think about it. Now I know you like shoes and coffee
Good memory cowboy. I like your style ??And perfume
Tiger xx
I would reply back with a courteous introduction message.
Or just say "Boo" in their profile and send a poke........ Who would do that??????
To ne honest when i first signed up was hormones everywhere i was my thing in the sky and j sent lots but now settled Nd realised how freindly you guys are its a different type of subject yes swingers but good friends online so no more testosterone lol