Doesnt one often/usually lead to the other? Yeah sure orally sex is good.. but foreplay is called foreplay, because its "fore"
Hence all worked up leads to intercourse if it doesnt it can leave you wanting more.
Although it depends on my mood.. no two days are the same surely??
One day just oral..
Another day the full works.
Another day just a quickie.. no cut n dry answer.. well not for me anyway..
Slow sensual lovemaking..
or fast clothes ripping off lust.. ??
I totally agree ... it's an average week for Mrs @2ofus and I to work our way through that list and more .... but as a 'general preference', I would go for oral' ... and THEN have everything else after as a bonus!!