Cheating
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I don't think even I can joke about almost fucking my life up tbf ? x
If you cant laugh at fucking your life up you cant laugh about anything x
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Nah My O/H deserves more respect than me taking the piss out of lying to him.It's worse when you're already in an open relationship anyway.There shouldn't be a reason to hide things but sometimes people like me are just complete dickheads x
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I got punished,I ended up getting moved to fucking Suffolk ? x
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A no for me, I would never hurt anyone like that
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When we married I took our vows extremely seriously.
So much in fact, that, even though our relationship had included another (for 2 of our 4 premarital years) I was determined that "forsaking ALL OTHERS" I would be true to him for as long as we blah blah etc.
I am. We are.
We'd been married 4yrs (with frequent jokes/hints/suggestions) before Geoff finally convinced me that just because we signed a piece of paper pledging our souls for eternity, didn't mean that we suddenly change.
He knew from Day 1 that I'm bi (mostly into F), but I found my Person in him.
He has always encouraged me to be me, and he gets the benefits of extra action. Why would he stray when I we both want the same thing?
A hot kinky demon who likes to play either way... Win Win
I (we) both hope that one day, the one that got away will come back to us and we'll all live in a "You, Me & Her" scenario... but who knows.
Point is, we are honest. We talk. We share, and we both compare notes, so cheating is not even a twinkle in the mind.
For me at least
(Though I flirt so outrageously with my male friends even our kids think I fuck away!)
XxRy
So much in fact, that, even though our relationship had included another (for 2 of our 4 premarital years) I was determined that "forsaking ALL OTHERS" I would be true to him for as long as we blah blah etc.
I am. We are.
We'd been married 4yrs (with frequent jokes/hints/suggestions) before Geoff finally convinced me that just because we signed a piece of paper pledging our souls for eternity, didn't mean that we suddenly change.
He knew from Day 1 that I'm bi (mostly into F), but I found my Person in him.
He has always encouraged me to be me, and he gets the benefits of extra action. Why would he stray when I we both want the same thing?
A hot kinky demon who likes to play either way... Win Win
I (we) both hope that one day, the one that got away will come back to us and we'll all live in a "You, Me & Her" scenario... but who knows.
Point is, we are honest. We talk. We share, and we both compare notes, so cheating is not even a twinkle in the mind.
For me at least
(Though I flirt so outrageously with my male friends even our kids think I fuck away!)
XxRy
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Straight answer no.. We hardly get anytime together now with both of us stuck on nights.. What chance would we have doing anything with someone else.. Plus the fact I've never felt the need to.. Or wanted to.. Even before we entered into this lifestyle.. W.. ??
Guilty much?
To my mind, members of this site (and lifestyle) and in long term relationships, are (hopefully) here with eyes wide open.
Previous relationships are irrelevant unless they were a trigger.
The guy I was with before meeting Geoff was a crush all through high school, then spent 51 wks of my life being gaslighted by him. He was a homophobe, I was curious. I used my initiation in girly fun times as a means to an end.
That is why G & I are so solid - It was a deciding factor for me if he could accept my sexuality.
Looks like it was a plus for both of us.
XxRy
Not sure how to take that tbh.Maybe it's the journalist in me over thinking my response to the OP, but I felt it was important enough to me/us to get it out there.Scripted much?
Just saying what others thought... ??
Maybe I over thought my answer, but I as thats what I do for a living I kinda have to.
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It was a genuine answer to the original post.
No, We haven't cheated. And I genuinely believe that's true for both of us.
Previous relationships are irrelevant.
XxRy
Sadly some people are just horrible towards others for various reasons, such as sexuality etc. At least you both know who you are together. X