You know Col, I’ve never understood why folk use that term, I’ve used it so guilty but when you think of it seriously, do you want to show people who you really are?It's called " take me as you find me or f*** off" attitude
For example, I ok like shit without my face on, but that’s me, would I meet someone I’ve never met before without my face on? Nope, I’d like to make an effort.
Do we fart burp and dribble? Yes as that’s who we are but I wouldn’t do it meeting someone.
So let’s face it, we talk a load of bollox when saying take me as I am or fuck off. If meeting a farting, burping makeup free person then I would fuck off.
See what I mean?
We all like to make an effort even if it’s simply holding in wind