What have you discovered about yourself since being in this lifestyle..

[Deleted member 11852]

When we first entered into this lifestyle I never thought for one minute that we would both enjoy the things we have done since being here.. I can't believe the things we enjoy now.. We have found out so much about our sexual preferences.. We have both become more curious than when we first started out.. Is this a personal thing for us or does everyone experience this.. Over to you sexy lot.. W.. ??

 

[fincon]

When we first entered into this lifestyle I never thought for one minute that we would both enjoy the things we have done since being here.. I can't believe the things we enjoy now.. We have found out so much about our sexual preferences.. We have both become more curious than when we first started out.. Is this a personal thing for us or does everyone experience this.. Over to you sexy lot.. W.. ??

Found out about myself? Not sure there’s anything, tbh.

I’ve found stuff I enjoyed that I’d never encountered before, but it’s not like I’d consideredt hem before, thought I wouldn’t like it but I did. It had just never really occurred to me.

I guess, if anything, the answer would be: I enjoy the atmosphere, culture and ethos of swinging. But again, until I slid into it almost by accident, I’d never really thought about it.

 

[Pearls]

I would say we started this with what we wanted in mind and it really hasn’t changed, probably dabbled a little further in some scenarios but the same fantasies are there and we’ve enjoyed the journey. X

 

[MP386]

When we first entered into this lifestyle I never thought for one minute that we would both enjoy the things we have done since being here.. I can't believe the things we enjoy now.. We have found out so much about our sexual preferences.. We have both become more curious than when we first started out.. Is this a personal thing for us or does everyone experience this.. Over to you sexy lot.. W.. ??

When I first started I never really had much idea what swinging was about , I hadn’t any plans as to what I’d like …
The first meeting I had was a threesome and I’ve enjoyed more since and moresomes … which have always been good times … I have to say I’ve enjoyed meeting single ladies mainly because the meets tend to be over longer periods and have tried one or two things which I would never have done … finding someone to meet on a more regular basis was always something I’d like , develop a stronger relationship with and that trust between 2 people and swing as a couple and explore new things together … swinging has been one of the best things I’ve done ….

 

[Guru G]

That I am gonna die a virgin

 

[Deleted member 10361]

Should have stayed single, I’d be having plenty of fun ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Should have stayed single, I’d be having plenty of fun ?

Plenty of help available for fun in this direction.. XX??

 

[MP386]

Should have stayed single, I’d be having plenty of fun ?

How many hints have I given ??

 

[Pearls]

How many hints have I given ??

Well there’s your answer

 

[Pearls]

I should add that our boundaries haven’t changed since we started which I think keeps things on a good level, I would say if you got carried away in the heat of the moment and broke those rules then it could effect you as a couple in the future.

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I should add that our boundaries haven’t changed since we started which I think keeps things on a good level, I would say if you got carried away in the heat of the moment and broke those rules then it could effect you as a couple in the future.

To be honest ours has but only very slightly and it was our choice.. It wasn't during a meet though we sat down and discussed it.. W.. ??

 

[Pearls]

To be honest ours has but only very slightly and it was our choice.. It wasn't during a meet though we sat down and discussed it.. W.. ??

We’ve bent with some things but the main ground rule hasn’t and for us that has kept us still wanting the same thing I guess. Some go into this with every expectation and once they set ground rules and break them, we’ve witnessed a downward spiral of no return if you get me ? bending little things is natural but if you start with a strict rule then I wouldn’t cross the line.
For example
I would never let my hubby/wife meet alone
You do and it gets brought up in every conversation and jealousy raises its head, you can never change or go back.
If they are black and white rules then really sit down a talk like you have and see if the future after breaking them will still be rosy ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

No i don't think we would ever meet alone.. Mrs h wouldn't feel safe and plus the fact that before we even entered this lifestyle we agreed that every experience would involve the both of us Together as this was the whole reason for choosing this... We will never cross that boundary.. W.. ??

 

[Pearls]

No i don't think we would ever meet alone.. Mrs h wouldn't feel safe and plus the fact that before we even entered this lifestyle we agreed that every experience would involve the both of us Together as this was the whole reason for choosing this... We will never cross that boundary.. W.. ??

I know couples do but I’m trying to imagine his nibs seeing me come down the stairs dolled up to meet and kissing him goodbye saying see you later He’d break my legs ? not that I’m dissing it as it works for some but like you this is about both and being together to enjoy.
Another is meeting a married person on the quiet and the wife/hubby walking in and flinging a chair at your head ? seen that too and it wasn’t a good ending.
Bounderies definitely work if you keep to them ?

 

[SteveandDebs]

I discovered what absolute filth I am.

I do remember wondering at 21 or 22 if sex would get boring now I'd "done everything"

Oh how little I new ?

 

[Vanezza]

I haven't really discovered anything about myself. I cannot and will not speak for V. I have always been a perv that loves sex in almost all its forms and that hasn't changed much over the years aside from having less stamina than I used to have.

N xxx