Club prive (Sex clubs)

[MyKinkyWorld]

Do people in sex clubs usually behave properly?
In Denmark they do, of course! A lady journalist during a news report in a sex club noted that couples and gents were very polite and she felt very comfortable and confident ......so comfortable that she had swinging sex duringthe news report! I do love Danish journalists and I'd say Danish ladies in general!
So, how do people behave in your Country?

 

[FredBloggs]

Never been to a sex club, would love to. Do you have a link to that video

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Do people in sex clubs usually behave properly?
In Denmark they do, of course! A lady journalist during a news report in a sex club noted that couples and gents were very polite and she felt very comfortable and confident ......so comfortable that she had swinging sex duringthe news report! I do love Danish journalists and I'd say Danish ladies in general!
So, how do people behave in your Country?

Good morning,
Yes I think overall that people are well behaved.
The majority of complaints are usually unwanted attention from gents who can't accept no for an answer - so they keep on, thinking that they're owed it for being there.

But overall, I would say it's fair that people are well behaved and tolerant/accepting of other people's choices/preferences etc.

 

[MyKinkyWorld]

Never been to a sex club, would love to. Do you have a link to that video

I think you can find it on internet

 

[NotSoFireproof]

Good morning,
Yes I think overall that people are well behaved.
The majority of complaints are usually unwanted attention from gents who can't accept no for an answer - so they keep on, thinking that they're owed it for being there.

But overall, I would say it's fair that people are well behaved and tolerant/accepting of other people's choices/preferences etc.

I've known a woman to be kicked out over this same thing.

But I agree with Lips, most of the times I've been to sex clubs there have been no issues at all, it's just been lots of people socialising, chatting, flirting, and taking it upstairs if the mood strikes

 

[MyKinkyWorld]

Good morning,
Yes I think overall that people are well behaved.
The majority of complaints are usually unwanted attention from gents who can't accept no for an answer - so they keep on, thinking that they're owed it for being there.

But overall, I would say it's fair that people are well behaved and tolerant/accepting of other people's choices/preferences etc.

At the end of the day, the situation is very similar to Italy. Anyway, but It's just my experience, in France people are more well behaved than in Italy.

 

[MyKinkyWorld]

At the end of the day, the situation is very similar to Italy. Anyway, but It's just my experience, in France people are more well behaved than in Italy.

In the UK I need to join and try them!!!!

 

[Skippy01]

In my experience most people are friendly and behave themselves.The only trouble i've seen has involved women after too many lambrinis.
You get the occasional man trying his luck but is normally swiftly dealt with.For the most part it is a more laid back approach to meet people,aslong as you go with the right attitude and try to be social first and engage in conversations x

 

[Tiger]

I think a fundamental change has happened in sex clubs over the years!

First we have to define that term “sex club” what does an average person (a vanilla) think that means? Sex on tap, a brothel! In Reality that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Even before the pandemic, the ratio of single males to females were skewed, clubs need to make more to survive! So what do they do? They target a particular demographic of males, that will happily pay over the odd to gain entry, with the Promise of women inside!

On the Flip side to this, they invite women in for free, again targeting a certain demographic of females, that are only there because it’s a free night out for them, they aren’t there to swing!

Then we have the couples, they will usually have to pay half price, and are probably the only ones there that generally want to swing!

See that I am now using the term “Swing” there in lies the problem! The term “sex club” it gives people the wrong impression!

So, let’s go back to the single males, to quote MP386 “why narrow the field when there’s furrows to plough” The majority of single men that have paid upwards of £80, now want to get their monies worth, so, they feel entitled, after all, in their minds they’ve just paid to have sex! So they want to plough those furrows!

Now, let’s look at why the single ladies are there, the club has invited them in for free! It’s a free night out for the girls, they’re not there to fuck every man in sight, they just want a laugh with their friends! And don’t want to be pestered by billy no mates!

As you can see, here is where we have the disconnect!

With the couples probably being the only genuine swingers in a swinging club!

Clearly, this isn’t how everyone acts, and there are exceptions to the rule!

Tiger xx

 

[Lips_Pearls]

So, let’s go back to the single males, to quote MP386 “why narrow the field when there’s furrows to plough” The majority of single men that have paid upwards of £80, now want to get their monies worth, so, they feel entitled, after all, in their minds they’ve just paid to have sex! So they want to plough those furrows!

I find this a bit, a tad awkward. You’ve quoted an exact line from a member you’ve got blocked. I think it’s rude and unfair.

The rest I agree on.

 

[Tiger]

I find this a bit, a tad awkward. You’ve quoted an exact line from a member you’ve got blocked. I think it’s rude and unfair.

The rest I agree on.

Yes, I have blocked him & for good reason!

As for being rude and unfair? I take your point, however if he doesn’t want to be pulled up on his behaviour, MP shouldn’t have posted that sentence!

I quoted him to illustrate a point! And I stand by that point.

 

[Skippy01]

I think a fundamental change has happened in sex clubs over the years!

First we have to define that term “sex club” what does an average person (a vanilla) think that means? Sex on tap, a brothel! In Reality that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Even before the pandemic, the ratio of single males to females were skewed, clubs need to make more to survive! So what do they do? They target a particular demographic of males, that will happily pay over the odd to gain entry, with the Promise of women inside!

On the Flip side to this, they invite women in for free, again targeting a certain demographic of females, that are only there because it’s a free night out for them, they aren’t there to swing!

Then we have the couples, they will usually have to pay half price, and are probably the only ones there that generally want to swing!

See that I am now using the term “Swing” there in lies the problem! The term “sex club” it gives people the wrong impression!

So, let’s go back to the single males, to quote MP386 “why narrow the field when there’s furrows to plough” The majority of single men that have paid upwards of £80, now want to get their monies worth, so, they feel entitled, after all, in their minds they’ve just paid to have sex! So they want to plough those furrows!

Now, let’s look at why the single ladies are there, the club has invited them in for free! It’s a free night out for the girls, they’re not there to fuck every man in sight, they just want a laugh with their friends! And don’t want to be pestered by billy no mates!

As you can see, here is where we have the disconnect!

With the couples probably being the only genuine swingers in a swinging club!

Clearly, this isn’t how everyone acts, and there are exceptions to the rule!

Tiger xx

The exception to the rule is most of people who attend clubs.The majority of men who regularly attend clubs do so on the basis that they are not promised anything.They go to have fun with or without sex and that is why they are successful.The odd single male goes once,doesn't get any because he hasn't put any effort in and whinge.The majority of single women go because they either want to have no strings fun, or they go for the social aspect to feel safe meeting others in a neutral location.The minority of single women go because they want attention and then whinge when people get the wrong impression.The majority of couples go because they like meeting friends and having a night out and it takes the hassle off making arrangements online.The minority of couples go to be part of the elite group of couples ,who like to moan about singles ruining their "swinging" nights out. 15 years i've been visiting clubs and I agree there is a change,but not with the guests.There's aresholes in every part of this lifestyle.Single men ,single women and couples all play their part, but for the whole I haven't seen any of this behaviour or had the sense that this how clubs are operated x

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Yes, I have blocked him & for good reason!

As for being rude and unfair? I take your point, however if he doesn’t want to be pulled up on his behaviour, MP shouldn’t have posted that sentence!

I quoted him to illustrate a point! And I stand by that point.

This is my point though which you’ve missed.
You have him blocked, so one - how did you see this post anyway?
Secondly, if he’s blocked and as you said, for good reason, then don’t you think it’s nothing short of flaming?
All I see is you flaming someone, using their post to validate your context. Unbeknown to them.
You may stand by your point but I’m amused as to how you can quote someone who you’ve got blocked?

I’d also like to draw your attention to the fact that if someone said this to you in private, then it should remain as just that - private.
Or are you selectively blocking and unblocking to enable your pick pointing for posts?
I stand by the fact, that irregardless of what was said - to use that as a way to fluff your own post, is rude and inflammatory.

 

[Tiger]

This is my point though which you’ve missed.
You have him blocked, so one - how did you see this post anyway?
Secondly, if he’s blocked and as you said, for good reason, then don’t you think it’s nothing short of flaming?
All I see is you flaming someone, using their post to validate your context. Unbeknown to them.
You may stand by your point but I’m amused as to how you can quote someone who you’ve got blocked?

I’d also like to draw your attention to the fact that if someone said this to you in private, then it should remain as just that - private.
Or are you selectively blocking and unblocking to enable your pick pointing for posts?
I stand by the fact, that irregardless of what was said - to use that as a way to fluff your own post, is rude and inflammatory.

Just to clarify, he posted that sentence publicly, the ripples from which could be felt for the next few hours, with multiple people name dropping him! And referencing the same phrase! In their own posts!

However, I do take your point. It can come across as rude and inflammatory.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I do take your point. It can come across as rude and inflammatory.

Thank you.

In the UK I need to join and try them!!!!

I think the UK would welcome a handsome Italian man into their clubs, with open arms... and legs. ? ?

 

[mrclouse]

I have seen a female get banned for being way too drunk and fucking everything that moves once but she then got unbanned so iunno, yes there is a problem with pricing in some clubs and I usually try to stay away from clubs that are above 25 since that's generally howmuch i would be willing to pay for a jacuzzi.