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19 March 2015
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The possibility of arranging a liaison with someone here, what's the typical type of discussion you'd have?
I mean, yes two of you may both use the account, but what do you agree or disagree on when it's potentially in the pipeline?

Same applies for swingles, do you have people you can chat with openly and honestly about members on here and if they're potentially someone you're about to meet, or would like to meet?

We always chat amongst ourselves and if that person is reciprocal, then we weigh up everything I think.

It's a normal human trait isn't it.
Perhaps you are keen on some aspects of this person(s) and your OH isn't, but is in other aspects..
Or do you just go straight for the kill and imaginary but dirty chit-chat? ? x
 
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17 September 2020
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The possibility of arranging a liaison with someone here, what's the typical type of discussion you'd have?
I mean, yes two of you may both use the account, but what do you agree or disagree on when it's potentially in the pipeline?

Same applies for swingles, do you have people you can chat with openly and honestly about members on here and if they're potentially someone you're about to meet, or would like to meet?

We always chat amongst ourselves and if that person is reciprocal, then we weigh up everything I think.

It's a normal human trait isn't it.
Perhaps you are keen on some aspects of this person(s) and your OH isn't, but is in other aspects..
Or do you just go straight for the kill and imaginary but dirty chit-chat? ? x
I try to ascertain what on earth they have read on the forums that has made them message me and then if they wear ankle socks..... it usually dies out there though
 
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It kind of ties into would you take one for the team? If you are a couple, both have to be on board with the idea, don’t they?

Speaking as a swingle, there has to be a mutual level of attraction for me to start with, if it develops organically then yes! The dirty chat will start ?
 
19 March 2015
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It kind of ties into would you take one for the team? If you are a couple, both have to be on board with the idea, don’t they?

Speaking as a swingle, there has to be a mutual level of attraction for me to start with, if it develops organically then yes! The dirty chat will start ?
Not necessarily. I mean, we may both find someone attractive but they could have that something that I may not be aware of that HRH is.. maybe... but yes to a degree unless you’re both on the same page then it’s just that isn’t it.

Yes that’s good when it happens organically. ?
 
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