What have you noticed

[Pearls]

Since the pandemic and lockdown, what changes have you noticed about swinging being online?
Has something you thought was completely normal before now seem different?
Have people changed?
Have you changed?

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Since the pandemic and lockdown, what changes have you noticed about swinging being online?
Has something you thought was completely normal before now seem different?
Have people changed?
Have you changed?

Everyone’s horny af. ??

Ahhh you get the rough with the smooth.
Big swells at sea always bring the rough and crap to the shore.
So I think there’s a lack of activity from those who have had their partners working from home.
They’ve now had chance to be active again slowly, now that work is resuming slowly.

It does show specifics behaviours.

Also I think a lot of negativity has been brewed in general online. That’s most likely due to frustrations and whatnot.
Mental health plays a massive, significant part in this too. Xx

 

[Lovernotfighter]

I've found people have gone kinda quite

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I've found people have gone kinda quite

Gone quite what my friend? You’re missing something from the end there. ??

 

[Lovernotfighter]

I've found people have gone kinda quite

Gone quite what my friend? You’re missing something from the end there. ??

Oppps that should be quiet not quite.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Oppps that should be quiet not quite.

Ahh my apologies.
Yeah I suppose some people have haven’t they. ??

 

[Skippy01]

I can produce a bullet point presentation on everything i've noticed ?.
For the main part though i've changed.I joined here last year,and before that it was normal for me to ignore,and not take part in any forum section.Now because of the people on here,I enjoy being active and speaking to a range of different personalities ,who I wouldn't have before.
Lockdown has certainly fucked some people over,especially those who had been living double lives.I also think it's made alot of people reavaluate what they are actually looking for in this lifestyle,which may now cause waves, with lockdown coming to an end x

 

[Guru G]

Sorry to be blunt but no

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I can produce a bullet point presentation on everything i've noticed ?.
For the main part though i've changed.I joined here last year,and before that it was normal for me to ignore,and not take part in any forum section.Now because of the people on here,I enjoy being active and speaking to a range of different personalities ,who I wouldn't have before.
Lockdown has certainly fucked some people over,especially those who had been living double lives.I also think it's made alot of people reavaluate what they are actually looking for in this lifestyle,which may now cause waves, with lockdown coming to an end x

See. That’s kind of what I mean. If only I wasn’t so diplomatic all the time. ?

But exactly. It shows some for what’s what.
It’s good you’ve changed and dropped that elitist persona. Even if only somewhat. ??? x

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Sorry to be blunt but no

Man of many words. Go team Ghinge.

 

[fincon]

Since the pandemic and lockdown, what changes have you noticed about swinging being online?
Has something you thought was completely normal before now seem different?
Have people changed?
Have you changed?

The most obvious thing I’ve noticed has been people who, In The Before Times, very much viewed non-physical contact (cyber, phone fun) as not only a poor substitute but as a non-starter discovering that, sure, it’s still a poor substitute…

…but as poor substitutes go, there are worse.

 

[mrclouse]

I've noticed some people/clubs that don't seem to care about safety

 

[Guru G]

I've noticed some people/clubs that don't seem to care about safety

Take me there

 

[mrclouse]

Take me there

There's one in Hull not gonna name the club but I'm sure you can find it

 

[Guru G]

There's one in Hull not gonna name the club but I'm sure you can find it

Fuck that then

 

[RubberSubManc]

Lots of people went very quiet, chatted with those I regularly met was was difficult to chat to others, no though people are waking up, some are sick of not being able to get up to stuff and are horny as fuck, I've been getting lots of action recently.

In London mid May I met someone every night on some occasions 2 people at different times, evem in Worthing the other week I had 2 nights of kinky fun, I've been off this week and with the exception of Wednesday I've met, again someone or more than one every day.

Got meets lined up whilst in Essex and some when I get back, plus potential for some in Brum at end of the month. So things are definitely picking back up again and people want to get out and have fun again. i do and have ?

Got tickets to a fetish night in July ? restrictions will have been lifted by then.

 

[Pearls]

Lots of people went very quiet, chatted with those I regularly met was was difficult to chat to others, no though people are waking up, some are sick of not being able to get up to stuff and are horny as fuck, I've been getting lots of action recently.

In London mid May I met someone every night on some occasions 2 people at different times, evem in Worthing the other week I had 2 nights of kinky fun, I've been off this week and with the exception of Wednesday I've met, again someone or more than one every day.

Got meets lined up whilst in Essex and some when I get back, plus potential for some in Brum at end of the month. So things are definitely picking back up again and people want to get out and have fun again. i do and have ?

Got tickets to a fetish night in July ? restrictions will have been lifted by then.

You Trollope you ??

 

[RubberSubManc]

You Trollope you ??

Hahaha a very HAPPY trollope ??

 

[SteveandDebs]

For us I can't really tell what changed because of the lockdown, what changed because we moved to Norfolk and what changed because the father-in-law ended up with us through lockdown and has now moved in.

I know I didn't like it when I first moved up here and only saw Debs weekends. When she moved up here full time it was only a couple of months until lockdown happened and then Debs was here working from home but I've been working (albeit supposedly part-time) through out. It was tough during the complete lockdown because we couldn't escape to a hotel and one downside of an elderly relative living with you is lack of privacy. We haven't really done the cyber thing, partly due to that and partly because it doesn't really work for us.

Now we can get settled into a routine, work hard and play hard (and dirty) works for us

 

[NotSoFireproof]

There's one in Hull not gonna name the club but I'm sure you can find it

I was planning on going there at some point. Not anymore!

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I think the pandemic in general has changed everyone's view on life not just swinging.. Family was always important to us but the lockdowns have made us realise just how much we have missed out on with family life.. As regards to swinging yes we will still arrange meets with the right person /people but at the moment family life takes priority.. We still enjoy the site and love chatting with people.. For me personally as regards to swinging at this present moment I could take it or leave it.. I know that sounds blunt but me and Mrs h have spent that much time in lockdown with just us that you get out of the habit of trying to meet up again.. Even though we have both worked our normal hours right through it we have still enjoyed each others company.. We have got meets arranged with the same person we met before the lockdown.. Family is definitely priority at the moment especially with the personal tragedies we have had in the last few months.. Because of restrictions we haven't had the chance to start dealing with things.. I'm sure there's plenty of people out there who can't wait to start meeting again but for us unfortunately meeting takes a back seat for now.. I'm sure it won't last too long and we will be having naughty fun with others again.. W.. ??

 

[RubberSubManc]

I think the pandemic in general has changed everyone's view on life not just swinging.. Family was always important to us but the lockdowns have made us realise just how much we have missed out on with family life.. As regards to swinging yes we will still arrange meets with the right person /people but at the moment family life takes priority.. We still enjoy the site and love chatting with people.. For me personally as regards to swinging at this present moment I could take it or leave it.. I know that sounds blunt but me and Mrs h have spent that much time in lockdown with just us that you get out of the habit of trying to meet up again.. Even though we have both worked our normal hours right through it we have still enjoyed each others company.. We have got meets arranged with the same person we met before the lockdown.. Family is definitely priority at the moment especially with the personal tragedies we have had in the last few months.. Because of restrictions we haven't had the chance to start dealing with things.. I'm sure there's plenty of people out there who can't wait to start meeting again but for us unfortunately meeting takes a back seat for now.. I'm sure it won't last too long and we will be having naughty fun with others again.. W.. ??

I know many who are doing the same, holding off merting until they feel ready again, I know one of the ones I used to meet reg won't meet until I've had my 2nd Jab, which I knew anyway so that would be mid August, jab end of July plus 2 weeks to kick in. Others probably won't meet or do much until Autumn/Winter or possibly even next year from those I've been chatting to. But it's about people taking their own time, as you said dealing with things as they can and meeting when they feel ready.

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I know everyone has completely different circumstances as regards to swinging.. If you're a swingle in this lifestyle then you will probably want to start meeting again but when you have kids you see the full impact of lockdown on them.. It's not even about the jabs because we have had both.. It's more personal issues to sort.. I'm sure in a couple of months we will be fine again.. W.. ??

 

[Pearls]

I’ve wanted to hang on to see if others had noticed the same thing as us and we’ve noticed a huge change.
What I thought personally to be genuine members definitely and are fake.
So many couple accounts where clearly there are no wives in the picture, or wives that have no idea their husbands are on here, exist but not aware.
As for single guys, who I genuinely thought were genuine claiming to be single, living alone, can accommodate, can’t accommodate, makes no odds to which yet lock down happens and they all disappear ? strange that.
I honestly thought with the few we chat to were who they said they were.
I think there are more and more people with double lives than even we thought there were and it definitely ruins it when you invest your time.
It really makes you think how many genuine honest swingers there are left or is it about getting your kicks out of lying to others.
We do know though, the genuine peeps are few and to those, be careful.

 

[Guru G]

I’ve wanted to hang on to see if others had noticed the same thing as us and we’ve noticed a huge change.
What I thought personally to be genuine members definitely and are fake.
So many couple accounts where clearly there are no wives in the picture, or wives that have no idea their husbands are on here, exist but not aware.
As for single guys, who I genuinely thought were genuine claiming to be single, living alone, can accommodate, can’t accommodate, makes no odds to which yet lock down happens and they all disappear ? strange that.
I honestly thought with the few we chat to were who they said they were.
I think there are more and more people with double lives than even we thought there were and it definitely ruins it when you invest your time.
It really makes you think how many genuine honest swingers there are left or is it about getting your kicks out of lying to others.
We do know though, the genuine peeps are few and to those, be careful.

I could point out the fakes here easily ?