Are you fussy or choosy with whom you meet up with?
Or are you happy to get in the sack with anyone? x
Or are you happy to get in the sack with anyone? x
Fussy / Choosy
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MOTM
I am now.
Before I was all about the extra attention and being wanted.Now I know my worth,and I won't settle for just anyone,regardless of popularity or positives x
I think the anyone who will have me sorts the fussy bit out since that narrows it down before I even get to weigh in ? , I'd not do anything with anyone I wasn't comfortable with though, if there is an attraction there then yes, if there is a connection there then bonus. I think 'in the sack' as a way of saying it sets the tone for the question though, as I think there are different types of intimacy when giving yourself to someone.
MOTM
Definitely choosy , I like to form a connection with the person/people I’m meeting…love the build up as you get to know one another the flirty kinky banter in PM …. All makes for a fun time ..
MOTM
Very fussy as you know, I know people preach about connecting in this scene but the only connection I have is with my husband and children, I just need to like a person and if we giggle about the same stuff then it’s all good. I can count on less than ten fingers how many meets we’ve had and am happy the way we’ve done things, not many have the same approach but it’s worked for us to keep a good balance. And at the end of the day we are simply talking about sex, that’s it. Everything else is between us.
MOTM
Are you more choosy than me then? Because I don't believe in forming a "connection" to have to have sex with someone? X
MOTM
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MOTM
MOTM
So chatting for me forms a part of getting to know someone, you can’t always tell what some is actually like as recent times have shown …
As a single it’s probably different your part of a couple so this is extra out side of your relationship so your connection would always be to your significant other ..
MOTM
Oh ok ?.I forgot a genuine connection can be made online between strangers, who can say what they think others want to hear ?.xYes …
Is it me being naive and new to be assuming there is a difference between sex the animalistic rutting with someone and then having sex with a connection to someone special?
MOTM
You're not allowed to ruin the connection theory!! ? x
MOTM
Connection bla blah. It’s sex ffs, if you want connection, join a dating site in it. Connect with others is something else, you are joining like minded people but as for “ I have to have a connection with someone”
MOTM
And I thought I was the negative one always seeing the down side to everything .. ?
I didn't say I mind either, just like to think both can exist maybe because I aint had enough experience xd
MOTM
So basically everyone is going to jump in the sack with everyone because it’s sex ….
MOTM
That’s not what I said, I’m not jumping in the sack with everyone am I, fact is, it’s sex. Nothing more. If you want more Than that then it’s not just sex is it?
MOTM
But yes, if it feels right, why not
MOTM
You did but suppose that's ok because you had connections? X
MOTM
Perfect example, lady joins. No avatar or media. You have no idea what she looks like and I’ve seen guys dive all over her asking to meet and so on, then preach about connections in a thread to charm other ladies who believe they have to have it. It happens all the time. It’s bollox in it from that example alone.
MOTM
I should add that usually happens with newbies trying all angles.
MOTM
I’ve not jumped into bed with everyone ?….. just the ones I’ve got to know first … connected with ?