Yep.It's bullshit.My experiences are just as special to me without having that connection.It's not less valuable.Perfect example, lady joins. No avatar or media. You have no idea what she looks like and I’ve seen guys dive all over her asking to meet and so on, then preach about connections in a thread to charm other ladies who believe they have to have it. It happens all the time. It’s bollox in it from that example alone.
I waited 8 months to meet someone from here.I got to know them through forum interraction and making my own mind up.There was no deep meaningful connection made and it's working out alot better, than meeting someone after 2 weeks, while sharing a romantic moment or 3 in pm x