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Stew

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How early in prospective conversations do you admit to having any kinks or fetishes ? That are maybe not on public display in your profile !
After all halfway through a meet is not a good time to hear someone say “ better bite that pillow, this might be a tad uncomfortable “
 
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Stew said:
How early in prospective conversations do you admit to having any kinks or fetishes ? That are maybe not on public display in your profile !
After all halfway through a meet is not a good time to hear someone say “ better bite that pillow, this might be a tad uncomfortable “
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I'm fairly open about most of mine,so normally they are brought up sooner rather than later. I do explain that some I don't discuss with just anyone.
My main ones I'll normally build upto, after I have met someone that I feel comfortable sharing them with,and someone that has a better understanding of them. They need a deeper discussion, and a higher level of trust x
 
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We tell them straight away to be fair. Think it’s best to be honest, having said that I have tried some things I never thought I would. I think that is down to our very first meet when a wonderful gentleman told me I would open up a lot more in this scene. I said no way lol, but he was right and I thank him so much xxxx ????
 
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Skippy01 said:
I'm fairly open about most of mine,so normally they are brought up sooner rather than later. I do explain that some I don't discuss with just anyone.
My main ones I'll normally build upto, after I have met someone that I feel comfortable sharing them with,and someone that has a better understanding of them. They need a deeper discussion, and a higher level of trust x
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It’s a long road from you telling someone and trusting them to execute whatever the activity is ! Putting a potential vulnerability into inexperienced hands can lead to all kinds of dangers !!
 
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Welshcouple59 said:
We tell them straight away to be fair. Think it’s best to be honest, having said that I have tried some things I never thought I would. I think that is down to our very first meet when a wonderful gentleman told me I would open up a lot more in this scene. I said no way lol, but he was right and I thank him so much xxxx ????
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Enthusiasm + open mind = potential !
You always had the ability you just needed a gentle push to do the “leap of faith”
 
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