Thanks pearls, I will given the chance
what’s the best way to break the ice and get going? XJoin a good site like this for starters. It’s not a quick meet and go with swinging, the answer is get involved. The more you interact, the more you gain. Sitting in a corner waiting for someone to jump out won’t work, you simply need to be active and get involved and rest will fall into place.So back before real life, house, marriage kids etc I used to use sites such as Fling or adult friend finder. Had some great times and lived out a few fantasies, but haven’t for the last ten years. Is this a form of swinging? How do you gain people’s trust to maybe meet or be invited to a party? I’m in the mindset that sex is amazing, pleasing others is amazing and that feelings shouldn’t always be attached to it. Despite that it’s still a taboo subject and people are unwilling to talk to strangers about it. Would be nice to be ‘allowed in’
Perfect, thanks for the advice pearls
not sure I’d be ready to go straight in for a club night alone, maybe I can have some correspondence with someone who knows the craic locally and hopefully get to the point when they can guide me through it. Anyone local….? ?
