Who meets who..

[Deleted member 11852]

Just a general observation I've made since being on here including our own experiences.. I don't know if its just me noticing but since we have been here our meets have been about 90% with single gents.. We have had 1 meet with a single lady and 1 meet with another couple.. The single females on here seem to be meeting with single gents and couples seem to be doing the same thing as us... Is this the new trend now in swinging.. Don't get me wrong our meets have been fantastic but I did think we would have met more single ladies and couples... What does everybody else think.. W.. ???

 

[Deleted member 8095]

We've met with one single guy and then couples, although we are looking to arrange a liason with a single female to fulfill other 'wants' that we have? .
As a rule we won't dismiss any ideas until we've had a chance to think about it, whether it's a single guy, a couple, a lady (or a group??)

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Just a general observation I've made since being on here including our own experiences.. I don't know if its just me noticing but since we have been here our meets have been about 90% with single gents.. We have had 1 meet with a single lady and 1 meet with another couple.. The single females on here seem to be meeting with single gents and couples seem to be doing the same thing as us... Is this the new trend now in swinging.. Don't get me wrong our meets have been fantastic but I did think we would have met more single ladies and couples... What does everybody else think.. W.. ???

Single ladies are extremely rare, hence the term unicorn. With couples, it's more complex as all four have to be on the same page.
I wouldn't say it's a new trend, it's kind of always been this way I think.

 

[MaleMan]

Single ladies are extremely rare, hence the term unicorn.

I had assumed single guys were unicorns for an other reason altogether I'm learning

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I had assumed single guys were unicorns for an other reason altogether I'm learning

Well there is that but unicorns for single ladies - elusive. For couples anyway.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Well there is that but unicorns for single ladies - elusive. For couples anyway.

But many couples like the single gent involved too. But the ratio is far far greater.
Like shooting ducks in a barrel. ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

But many couples like the single gent involved too. But the ratio is far far greater.
Like shooting ducks in a barrel. ?

Yes when you put it like that...W..??

 

[MaleMan]

Like shooting ducks in a barrel. ?

Why do I get the impression that you've tried this ?