I’ve been informed by a couple of the people here that someone in this brilliant community has more than likely got experience that can answer a question (or quite a few questions) that I have. To kick off;
Some of you may have seen my welcome post on here where I briefly explained my reasons for signing up, but basically I’ve always been a bit of a closet swinger. When I ever get a bit of ‘me time’ (increasingly rare nowadays with two young kids and a wife) it’s the amateur party stuff where I usually end up.
Before real life took over I used a few sites like fling or adult friend finder and had some incredible experiences with quite a number of beautiful women, some beautiful on the outside, some beautiful on the inside and some on both. Young, middle aged or mature, they all brought amazing experiences to the table.
I absolutely loved connecting with other people who put sex in the same box as me. Bloody amazing fun, more exciting than anything, totally natural and nothing to be embarrassed about. We’d chat, we’d have a drink, we’d fuck, then back to the hotel to fuck all night. A fumble in the sauna? A cheeky blowjob on the road? Why not… Not quite swinging but it’s a step in the right direction, right?
I then met my amazing wife, had two kids and suddenly a decade has gone by. I love her, our life and our kids with my whole heart. The only thing missing is sex for sexes sake. Hence me joining this site, even if just for the chat if no connections are made enough to meet or finally tick off that fuck party bit of the bucket list.
So, my basic question is has anyone been in a situation where they’d had to bring up their interest in swinging to someone that as far as you’re aware have never had anything to do with swinging? Is it worth the risk? How can I slip it into conversation without raising suspicion? Or should this remain my dirty little secret, is that part of the fun?
Here’s hoping for the answers I crave….
Some of you may have seen my welcome post on here where I briefly explained my reasons for signing up, but basically I’ve always been a bit of a closet swinger. When I ever get a bit of ‘me time’ (increasingly rare nowadays with two young kids and a wife) it’s the amateur party stuff where I usually end up.
Before real life took over I used a few sites like fling or adult friend finder and had some incredible experiences with quite a number of beautiful women, some beautiful on the outside, some beautiful on the inside and some on both. Young, middle aged or mature, they all brought amazing experiences to the table.
I absolutely loved connecting with other people who put sex in the same box as me. Bloody amazing fun, more exciting than anything, totally natural and nothing to be embarrassed about. We’d chat, we’d have a drink, we’d fuck, then back to the hotel to fuck all night. A fumble in the sauna? A cheeky blowjob on the road? Why not… Not quite swinging but it’s a step in the right direction, right?
I then met my amazing wife, had two kids and suddenly a decade has gone by. I love her, our life and our kids with my whole heart. The only thing missing is sex for sexes sake. Hence me joining this site, even if just for the chat if no connections are made enough to meet or finally tick off that fuck party bit of the bucket list.
So, my basic question is has anyone been in a situation where they’d had to bring up their interest in swinging to someone that as far as you’re aware have never had anything to do with swinging? Is it worth the risk? How can I slip it into conversation without raising suspicion? Or should this remain my dirty little secret, is that part of the fun?
Here’s hoping for the answers I crave….
