What kind of people do you like to meet..

[Deleted member 11852]

This is another tricky one for me.. Being on the larger frame size I tend to look for meets with people a similar size... most of our meets have been single gents mainly because I'm so paranoid about what I see when I look in the mirror... . I'm not sure if this is right or wrong because I'm so paranoid about my size I like to feel comfortable knowing the people were meeting are similar... I don't try to hide the fact I'm overweight and we have had some nasty comments in the past about my size.. I always say if people don't want to meet us fine,, we haven't got a problem with that... So the question is does meeting up with let's say more cuddly people appeal to you or a definite no no... Don't worry about the answers we won't be offended... After all not everyone is attracted to everyone... W.. ???

 

[Deleted member 8095]

OK so for me honestly it doesn't matter about someone's size so much as their personality does, obviously there is a point at which subconsciously I don't find people attractive but that is true of both larger and smaller people. Being a larger chap with wobbly bits etc I tend to find that I avoid the gym fit, lycra clad mob as I'd be too self conscious, so I can empathise with seeking out similar statured people however I am becoming more accepting of myself and so wouldn't rule out a slimmer/fitter/healthier person for a tumble between the Egyptian cotton ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

OK so for me honestly it doesn't matter about someone's size so much as their personality does, obviously there is a point at which subconsciously I don't find people attractive but that is true of both larger and smaller people. Being a larger chap with wobbly bits etc I tend to find that I avoid the gym fit, lycra clad mob as I'd be too self conscious, so I can empathise with seeking out similar statured people however I am becoming more accepting of myself and so wouldn't rule out a slimmer/fitter/healthier person for a tumble between the Egyptian cotton ?

I think I am changing myself.. I've noticed the last few meets I do feel a bit more comfortable walking round naked.. Still think I should smash the mirror the bedroom.. W.. ??

 

[Pearls]

Are we talking about body shape Welshcouple59 with regards to meeting ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Are we talking about body shape Welshcouple59 with regards to meeting ?

Yes bodyshape and size.. Let's be honest it makes no difference how lovely your personality is some people look at pics and say no chance,,, not for us... I'm not saying it's people on here... This site is lovely where people do like to know the person and not the pics... It’s me that's paranoid about it... . Probably a lot more than others.. This is the whole point I really struggle getting past it in my head which is why we have the meets we have... I've got no regrets as the meets we have from here have been fantastic m we have long term friendships and regular meets.. W.. ??

 

[MaleMan]

For me people are so much more than their looks, whilst we are all different and obviously I have preferences of whats more pleasing on the eyes it is true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you can't be all things to all people.

Obviously chiseled gods make me more self conscious about myself, but I have a duty to the universe to be me as I'm the only one who can do it. If people aren't keen I'm not going to be offended.

Looks will only get you so far with me, the person/people have to be nice and good hearted first and foremost, I don't want to be tangling up my energy with any horrible pieces of work. There does have to be some level of attraction there though, I'm not going to be leading anyone on if I don't find them alluring.

 

[Pearls]

Yes bodyshape and size.. Let's be honest it makes no difference how lovely your personality is some people look at pics and say no chance,,, not for us... I'm not saying it's people on here... This site is lovely where people do like to know the person and not the pics... It’s me that's paranoid about it... . Probably a lot more than others.. This is the whole point I really struggle getting past it in my head which is why we have the meets we have... I've got no regrets as the meets we have from here have been fantastic m we have long term friendships and regular meets.. W.. ??

we’ll based on that, I don’t think you should base meets on your own body size even though I understand.
For us we’ve grown in our bodies, we aren’t no models and I married a short and stumpy fella ?

We have met people of all sizes and tbh due to the fact we have only met decent and lovely swingers in the scene the size of anyone has never played a part.

Now going on what we look for then it comes down to taste yes and first impressions definitely count but I love to see people that look after themselves. If you are a size 20, have confidence and look after yourself then there’s the attraction, if you’re the same size but don’t give a shit then it doesn’t interest us.

We both aren’t attracted to very slim as we both love boobs, hips and ass so it’s all about confidence and curves for sure.

Never worry about what others think, as long as everyone is happy then why concern yourself about the little things like a shape. Being attracted to another person has many branches and we have ours so keep to that. X

 

[Pearls]

Oh and gym fit muscles just ain’t my thing, I like a man to be a bit squishy ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Oh and gym fit muscles just ain’t my thing, I like a man to be a bit squishy ?

Well I'm very squishy.. I do try and look after myself.. I eat healthy I'm very active but still a bit big... Unfortunately I do worry about what everyone thinks,, probably more than they do... W.. X??

 

[Pearls]

Well I'm very squishy.. I do try and look after myself.. I eat healthy I'm very active but still a bit big... Unfortunately I do worry about what everyone thinks,, probably more than they do... W.. X??

There’s such a lot of hype with eating healthy, I’ve tried along with every person on the planet every diet and they don’t work, what we’ve learnt is sticking to fresh food. There isn’t any processed food in this house and my freezer is for ice and peas only. The amount of sugar in processed food that you think and been made to believe is healthy is shocking. Stick to good fresh produce is my top tip. ?

 

[TherLegs]

I think we all have hang ups about our bodies, hey I need a moob reduction and a load of wrinkles filled in, well at least in my opinion. However to answer your question we haven't really considered what others look like so long as we get along ok. We aren't models, we don't expect those we meet to be either. And finally, yes I am very concious about getting naked in front of others for the first time.

 

[Deleted member 18050]

Real people with lumps ,bumps and above all the right attitude and personality

 

[Milfdilf1980]

We've not actually had the opportunity to meet anyone yet. Although these things do remind me of my younger days, when I was always going after ladies, and not quite getting there for whatever reason. We live in a looks orientated society these days, and that's due to instagram and various other things, where people show off a fake self that is unattainable.

I have real hang ups about how I look, and I feel I am punching well above my weight with my wife. But she's very reassuring, but not everyone is that kind or nice. Learning to love yourself is one of the hardest things you can do, and accepting that not everyone will like you.