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MP386

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Skippy01 said:
I like to see how clean things are ? x
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Never been that confident and I dont think that'll change tbh. But yea definitely had a few moments where I've been nocked down a peg, last one I remember in a club was a "I have standards" . Other than that usualbeing ghosted or ignored.
 
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Skippy01 said:
That was a pretty big leap to make then, considering you don't know anything about me. I appreciate that you thought you were offering insightful reasoning into my issues, but if you knew anything about me you would know it's not that much of an issue in the first place.
I tend to get ignored because I spend most of my nights at clubs, walking around, feeling up curtains and checking walls. I don't go to clubs to get "picked" I go to watch. Sometimes (rarely), when i've had a drink, I think why did these normal people not come and talk to me, while I was sat in a corner, making no effort whatsoever to look approachable. I overthink for about an hour, then I forget about it. The same as anything else, that plays on my mind. I give my head a wobble, remind myself that it's all irrelevant in the grand scheme of things, because most of it is my own fault. Then I go back to being my "middle aged" chubby self ?.
The " different class " comment is the part I had issue with. I am chubby and short lol there is no getting around that.So I can't be mad at you for pointing out the obvious.Although probably not the best idea to point that out at all. But that doesn't put me in another class as the gym bunnies and hunks. They're not special because they look better.
My confidence is not based on my looks, weight or age. It's my personality and social skills that let me down. I'm a knobhead, that makes her own problems basically ?
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Skippy01 said:
That was a pretty big leap to make then, considering you don't know anything about me. I appreciate that you thought you were offering insightful reasoning into my issues, but if you knew anything about me you would know it's not that much of an issue in the first place.
I tend to get ignored because I spend most of my nights at clubs, walking around, feeling up curtains and checking walls. I don't go to clubs to get "picked" I go to watch. Sometimes (rarely), when i've had a drink, I think why did these normal people not come and talk to me, while I was sat in a corner, making no effort whatsoever to look approachable. I overthink for about an hour, then I forget about it. The same as anything else, that plays on my mind. I give my head a wobble, remind myself that it's all irrelevant in the grand scheme of things, because most of it is my own fault. Then I go back to being my "middle aged" chubby self ?.
The " different class " comment is the part I had issue with. I am chubby and short lol there is no getting around that.So I can't be mad at you for pointing out the obvious.Although probably not the best idea to point that out at all. But that doesn't put me in another class as the gym bunnies and hunks. They're not special because they look better.
My confidence is not based on my looks, weight or age. It's my personality and social skills that let me down. I'm a knobhead, that makes her own problems basically ? x
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Not sure if you are still mad at me or have forgiven me. so i guess i will just give it a like and hope for the best.
 
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