Did it work ?The worst piece of advice was to join a not so fabulous Swinging site,
The piece of advice was to have have fun and if things sexy then great but if the don't then you've still had fun and haven't put all the pressure in the world on yourself.
Broadly speaking it the advice does make things easier.Did it work ?
May i ask what is wrong with socials?Best
Be true to yourself, don’t copy others to fit in which I now know is a common thing. I think I’ve kept to that.
Don’t get involved with married people,you’ll be labelled as the same and it’ll end with shit at your door. We never have.
Never take it seriously.
Worst
Go to socials.
If you’ve ever been to socials in Wales, you’ll know what I mean.
Never again.
Get in the hot tub, it’s where you can break the ice with others in a relaxed atmosphere..
Never again.
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They’re great if organised well but our experience here was not what we were expecting but I’m talking many yrs ago. Back street grotty social clubs with sticky carpet and a lot of people thinking they’re the top notches of the swinging world who if you even said hello, they’d look at you strange. Grotty, sleazy and for a public venue, too revealing in the back streets of Swansea.May i ask what is wrong with socials?
I have never been to one in Wales, or anywhere else.
Grotty would be my polite way of describing itHad to look up " grotty" , but i got it.
"Sticky carpet' gave me the mental image.