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Tempted70

Tempted70

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I want to get back into it and enjoy the things I know it has to offer.
Previously my main experience has been as part of a couple with an occasional solo meet.
I know I have an uphill journey to overcome confidence issues and shyness which have burdened me since my marriage failed. Coupled with the label of "single male" doesn't sit well with me because I'm a "single gent" whose reputation has been tarnished by behaviour of others (yes I've been on other sites where I'm made to feel like a 3rd class citizen).
I'm my own person and I'm here because 1) a good friend recommended I join as she says you're all a friendly bunch, 2) she says I'm a catch and 3) because I want to be sociable, make friends and have some fun.
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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Tempted70 said:
Coupled with the label of "single male" doesn't sit well with me because I'm a "single gent" whose reputation has been tarnished by behaviour of others (yes I've been on other sites where I'm made to feel like a 3rd class citizen).
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You won’t get any of that here. Only the Uber swinger types behave like that and they don’t last long here. This is what swinging online is meant to be and not brash, crass and hateful. ??
But yes good luck, let’s hope it pans out for you.
 
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MP386

MOTM

MP386

9 November 2015
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I don’t really have plans just wait and see what might come along , as I always do , this Covid thing is still a worry but we have to get back to normal and accept it’s here to stay ….
Things haven’t really changed since i started this many moons ago , my aims to find a regular person to swing with hasn’t changed although I don’t see it happening… some things can’t really be explored to their full until you have built trust with ….
So just hope 2022 can bring some fun my way …..
 
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Ymichael14

Ymichael14

17 August 2021
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Tempted70 said:
I want to get back into it and enjoy the things I know it has to offer.
Previously my main experience has been as part of a couple with an occasional solo meet.
I know I have an uphill journey to overcome confidence issues and shyness which have burdened me since my marriage failed. Coupled with the label of "single male" doesn't sit well with me because I'm a "single gent" whose reputation has been tarnished by behaviour of others (yes I've been on other sites where I'm made to feel like a 3rd class citizen).
I'm my own person and I'm here because 1) a good friend recommended I join as she says you're all a friendly bunch, 2) she says I'm a catch and 3) because I want to be sociable, make friends and have some fun.
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If this site can tolerate me, they can be friends with anybody
 
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Ymichael14

Ymichael14

17 August 2021
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The other side of us said:
Help Mrs build up the courage to share a photo, go to a club to get an idea of what goes on and maybe play together, go from there.
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As far as the photos, the problem women have with that is difficult for us men to understand because we could look like Jabba the hut and we still dont care and we post naked photos of ourselves.
A woman gets a pimple and she hides for a month.
Start with a photo that is not revealing and doesn't show her face and slowly post more revealing photos.
Remember, you are dealing with a fear. If someone is afraid of the water you cant just throw them overboard to cure them.
 
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Tempted70

Tempted70

28 December 2021
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The other side of us said:
Help Mrs build up the courage to share a photo, go to a club to get an idea of what goes on and maybe play together, go from there.
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Clubs are an ideal starting point as there is no pressure to do anything you don't feel comfortable with. Some of the smaller clubs I've been to in the past will show you round and even introduce to some of the friendly regulars. Just go with an open mind.

For pictures just start with minimal and subtle teasing and build up the confidence from there, just a simple flash of underwear to start with an see where it leads :sneaky:
 
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Skippy01

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Skippy01

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I'm going to expand of bugging the shit out of Mp this year. Last year went well, so I'll continue to grow that budding romance ?
But pretty much the same plans as I have every year. Travel around meeting new people and having fun. Possibly travel North to check out more of the clubs up there x
 
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MP386

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MP386

9 November 2015
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Skippy01 said:
I'm going to expand of bugging the shit out of Mp this year. Last year went well, so I'll continue to grow that budding romance ?
But pretty much the same plans as I have every year. Travel around meeting new people and having fun. Possibly travel North to check out more of the clubs up there x
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??….. you can bug me anytime ??
What about south ?
 
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MP386

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MP386

9 November 2015
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Skippy01 said:
Isn't Jaydees and Eurekas south? Lol I'm sure I go down to them, but knowing my geography skills, probably not ?.
And I do bug you anytime ? My love language is pissing you off as much as I can get away with ? x
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Perhaps I’ll have to teach you some geography ??
I haven’t blocked you yet so you’re not that bad …. And I’m still waiting for our first meeting ?….. talk about prick tease ????
 
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Skippy01

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Skippy01

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MP386 said:
Perhaps I’ll have to teach you some geography ??
I haven’t blocked you yet so you’re not that bad …. And I’m still waiting for our first meeting ?….. talk about prick tease ????
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I'll have to wait for you to fit me in between all the single ladies that join ? .
And you can't block me. You'll miss out on my valuable input, and all my intelligence that I share x
 
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MP386

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MP386

9 November 2015
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Skippy01 said:
I'll have to wait for you to fit me in between all the single ladies that join ? .
And you can't block me. You'll miss out on my valuable input, and all my intelligence that I share x
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Whenever I suggest anytime you’re always busy with all your admirers I’ve not even got on the list yet … ?
Valuable input ?
 
MP386

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MP386

9 November 2015
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Skippy01 said:
I'll have to wait for you to fit me in between all the single ladies that join ? .
And you can't block me. You'll miss out on my valuable input, and all my intelligence that I share x
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What single ladies you frightened them all off ?‍♂️
 
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Deleted member 11852

Hopefully for us this year will bring a lot more chances of meets.. There's still so many things in this lifestyle we want to explore and experience.... Think it's just a case of us becoming pro active and messaging people to try and arrange some more meets.. Problem at the moment is the way these governments keep changing rules and guidelines.. Fingers Crossed we get back to some kind of normality and we start getting more offers for some naughty fun... W.. ??
 
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Ymichael14

Ymichael14

17 August 2021
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MP386 said:
Perhaps I’ll have to teach you some geography ??
I haven’t blocked you yet so you’re not that bad …. And I’m still waiting for our first meeting ?….. talk about prick tease ????
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Send her a GPS unit.
So much for her geography excuse.
 
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