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[CocoDD]

How do you start yours?

Ive just opened six and apart from one they all read, “hey” or “what u up 2”

Do these opening lines work for you?

Thanks
Coco ?xx

 

[Therapon]

How do you start yours?

Ive just opened six and apart from one they all read, “hey” or “what u up 2”

Do these opening lines work for you?

Thanks
Coco ?xx

What's wrong with my messages

Seriously though I try to put a bit of effort into any message I send and usually start with something like Hi CocoDD.
Whether thats good or bad I'm not sure but I'd hope it's slightly more acceptable than your examples.

 

[CocoDD]

What's wrong with my messages

Seriously though I try to put a bit of effort into any message I send and usually start with something like Hi CocoDD.
Whether thats good or bad I'm not sure but I'd hope it's slightly more acceptable than your examples.

Hello would be a good start but thats non existent ? just some introduction would be a start and not just hey.. xx

 

[Ymichael14]

Nothing has ever worked for me so my opinion really doesn't count, but my message depends on your profile.
If you are showing your face and your real name and pics and videos of you with 10 guys, 3 women and a midget, you get a dirty perverted message.
Because I assume that is what you want.
Just cleavage Pic or a face Pic, you get a vanilla message.
But, this never works because the ones with the gangbang pics and videos get mad because she was offended and expected me to open with a lengthy discussion of Plato and the one with just the cleavage pic gets mad because she wanted me to tell her I was planing on raping her.

I usually prefer just a hey message to see if there is any interest.

 

[CocoDD]

Nothing has ever worked for me so my opinion really doesn't count, but my message depends on your profile.
If you are showing your face and your real name and pics and videos of you with 10 guys, 3 women and a midget, you get a dirty perverted message.
Because I assume that is what you want.
Just cleavage Pic or a face Pic, you get a vanilla message.
But, this never works because the ones with the gangbang pics and videos get mad because she was offended and expected me to open with a lengthy discussion of Plato and the one with just the cleavage pic gets mad because she wanted me to tell her I was planing on raping her.

I usually prefer just a hey message to see if there is any interest.

Did the hey work? X

 

[MP386]

How do you start yours?

Ive just opened six and apart from one they all read, “hey” or “what u up 2”

Do these opening lines work for you?

Thanks
Coco ?xx

Well I haven’t been in your box for a while so wasn’t me ?
So “hey what you up 2” ….. ??

 

[CocoDD]

Well I haven’t been in your box for a while so wasn’t me ?
So “hey what you up 2” ….. ??

sorry no understand ?xx

 

[MP386]

sorry no understand ?xx

?……Coucou ?

 

[CocoDD]

?……Coucou ?

Is that that couscous stuf, yuk ?xx

 

[MP386]

Is that that couscous stuf, yuk ?xx

No it’s “hey” in French ? google is my friend ?

 

[CocoDD]

No it’s “hey” in French ? google is my friend ?

It sounds better in English then ?xx

 

[MP386]

It sounds better in English then ?xx

“Hey “ good looking what you got cooking ??

 

[CocoDD]

“Hey “ good looking what you got cooking ??

Ding cuisine ?x

 

[MP386]

Ding cuisine ?x

Que

 

[MP386]

Ding cuisine ?x

Oh Ding ?

 

[CocoDD]

Oh Ding ?

Home made in a container ?x

 

[MP386]

Home made in a container ?x

Home made by who ?…..

 

[CocoDD]

Home made by who ?…..

Tesco ?x

 

[MP386]

Tesco ?x

Thought it was you ??

 

[Ymichael14]

Did the hey work? X

Hey or Hi, my name is Michael, only works on straight dating sites.
Sites where you are looking for some type of sex, it has never worked. But, neither has anything else.
Never tried contacting anyone on this site, always assumed being a few thousand kilometers away and refusing to put a U in the word COLOR, was a deal breaker.

 

[Deleted member 18050]

As Michael has already said ,Nothing seems to work ,No matter how polite,Complimentary,Long or short a message they are always either get read and deleted or just deleted,Very very rarely will I get a reply saying no thank you
So in the end a hi or hey is better than spending ten minutes thinking of a message that will be ignored
It happens on all sites not just drabs even on here it’s happened

 

[Pearls]

I don’t ignore messages but if the language is offensive or in text then it’ll just get a like. I understand most middle aged men forget basic schooling when it comes to saying hello but I also understand the ignorance of some, as for hey, that’s not something that I’d be interested in, maybe if it was a hello.
If you’ve given up and think hey is all I can be arsed to write then have a look at others who would never use it and get conversations going, putting effort into messaging, interacting in threads gets meets.
I watched the other day, a lady flirting big time with a guy here, she was ignored. So it’s not just women who think they’re the bees knees..
Make some effort and you’ll have fun.

 

[Pearls]

Hey or Hi, my name is Michael, only works on straight dating sites.
Sites where you are looking for some type of sex, it has never worked. But, neither has anything else.
Never tried contacting anyone on this site, always assumed being a few thousand kilometers away and refusing to put a U in the word COLOR, was a deal breaker.

I think you’re smart and funny in a strange British sense of humour way, I’d meet you at a social event here, and am sure others here would ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

How do you start yours?

Ive just opened six and apart from one they all read, “hey” or “what u up 2”

Do these opening lines work for you?

Thanks
Coco ?xx

That's better than some of the one's we get.. Some say nice tits you looking for sex.. This is in the last couple of weeks... Needless to say they don't get a response.. W.. ??

 

[Ymichael14]

I don’t ignore messages but if the language is offensive or in text then it’ll just get a like. I understand most middle aged men forget basic schooling when it comes to saying hello but I also understand the ignorance of some, as for hey, that’s not something that I’d be interested in, maybe if it was a hello.
If you’ve given up and think hey is all I can be arsed to write then have a look at others who would never use it and get conversations going, putting effort into messaging, interacting in threads gets meets.
I watched the other day, a lady flirting big time with a guy here, she was ignored. So it’s not just women who think they’re the bees knees..
Make some effort and you’ll have fun.

OK, but i see meeting online the same as in person.
If we met at a social I assume you would perfer, hi .
Then if I get a hi and not your back turned to me, I can follow up with, are you a member of social swinging?
And the conversation starts there.
I don't think you would want some lengthy introduction.
Or, another way to look at it, as an American visiting England, if I didn't like the queen I would never start a conversation with why I hate the queen because you might find that offensive. So I would start with something more neutral like commenting on something that was in the news about the queen. If you respond with how much you hate the queen, I now know I can tell you how much I hate her.
On this site I can't tell if you want me to lead off with what I want to do you or if you want polite conversation first.
I am sure you are aware of women who just want the guy's dick and don't want conversation. Just tell them how big your dick is in the first sentence.