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No must admit.. after all the hype i found the first a bit of a let down.. more a romantic comedy.. all the girls in work.. where saying OMG can you believe it? Really?Anyone seen this
No Matter what, a percentage will complain mostly small mind peepsHere they go with their complete lack of understanding. Sure abuse occurs in the bdsm world, after all it involves humans, those same humans who abuse each other behind closed doors in plenty of other places.
A lot of people live in perfectly vanilla, extremely abusive relationships all over the world. Bdsm just gives the moral police something to point at.
The bit I love is.... Yes I flog my wife, I cane my wife on occasion too, restrain her with rope and tease her until she begs for release. Every single time she is perfectly willing and happy to submit herself to all of those things. She is perfectly happy and free to choose within the bounds of our agreement, at all times she has choice. She couldn't be in a more supporting, loving relationship and neither of us are mentally unstable or emotionally broken. I wonder how many of the moral police can say the same. I bet there are those that can't. Just like every other walk of life.
Don't judge others with your own insecurities...
Good point, playing them kind of games as a couple you know each others boundaries but if you are playing the same games with new people you do need some kind of consent to say whats ok with them and whats not. I hadn't actually looked at it that way before you said it.Make no mistake. In the eyes of the law some practices in bdsm are abuse. That is why all precautions possible need to be taken when playing, particularly with new playmates. Written consent won't stand up in court as a defense but I always get it if I know that play will go in that direction. I would hope it would be worth something if not a total defense. I know I will never go to far as I am careful, but it can also be down to the perception of those watching, not even the other person involved.
Definitely need to apply a little grey matter and be very careful
Havent seen the second one yetSo we already for the third film 50 Shades Freed, out valantines day
Nope because it will be shit aswellSo we already for the third film 50 Shades Freed, out valantines day
I found them well presented, remember that to the outside world who have no understanding of the whole BDSM scene will find the films educational. The writers and producers have to simplify this so the audience can try and understand a sneek peak, I do think they did a good job, if it were a film for BDSM lovers only then completely different story.Nope because it will be shit aswell
It's not that it's more they just not very well made to my eye the sets seemed drab, the colour pallette is to grey and flat (adding to the drabness) and I no real chemistry between the actors, I know the source material isn't great and a lot of grey tones were always going to be used but that still not an excuse.I found them well presented, remember that to the outside world who have no understanding of the whole BDSM scene will find the films educational. The writers and producers have to simplify this so the audience can try and understand a sneek peak, I do think they did a good job, if it were a film for BDSM lovers only then completely different story.
I thought they did an amazing job, it's very hard to portray something to an audience that has no idea about the subject, the books are better thoughIt's not that it's more they just not very well made to my eye the sets seemed drab, the colour pallette is to grey and flat (adding to the drabness) and I no real chemistry between the actors, I know the source material isn't great and a lot of grey tones were always going to be used but that still not an excuse.
Perhaps but 'The Secretary' does a much better job.I thought they did an amazing job, it's very hard to portray something to an audience that has no idea about the subject, the books are better though
Totally agree. Great film.Perhaps but 'The Secretary' does a much better job.
Did you enjoyIve just got round to watching this for the first timex
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