We've been swinging on and off for the last few years. Have yet to meet a couple that we're able to continue lasting friendships. I know my husband loves me and it doesn't bother me the fact that we're having sex with others. I guess what more gets to me is that it seems like a hunt when we go out. He'll constantly persist to stay way late into the mornings if we haven't found a couple that night yet. He seems in a more playful and easy-going mood and personality when we are out for the night. Most of the time I feel we end up with some "couple" formed from an arrangement between two platonic persons. We've played with a handful of couples, some legitimate and others questionable though I want more of a connection. Personally, I don't care if we end up solely monogamous though I know he would be greatly disappointed, though would follow through with my decision. I've looked into polygamous relationships and feel that is something more of what would bring me fulfillment. I guess I'm just looking for advice and observations, no offense taken if it's brutally honest. Am I just being to judgmental and picky?