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I understand everybody's view on age groups but have an interesting thought from this. Legal limit for clubs seems to mostly be 21 even if you're not interested in someone under say 32 like Road and Mrs tinks above do you think that the age limit is right or should they go down to 18 for some clubs?
In my humble opinion, it should be minimum 21. 25 + is better..
The site I often thought about making 25+ too for example, but we have some very mature 22-23 year olds.. 21 works.
18? I think it is way way way too young for swinging... Just my tuppence worth
 
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In many ways I'm in agreement with 21, but there's quite a few 18+ these days for whom sex IS something akin to swinging. Reason for asking is prompted by the fact that in Brazil apparently it's 18 for clubs. However would we want 21 to keep immature kids out of our way?
Our limit is in Linda's hands. As she has got kids she has the same reasons as most of you for an age limit.
 
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In many ways I'm in agreement with 21, but there's quite a few 18+ these days for whom sex IS something akin to swinging. Reason for asking is prompted by the fact that in Brazil apparently it's 18 for clubs. However would we want 21 to keep immature kids out of our way?
Our limit is in Linda's hands. As she has got kids she has the same reasons as most of you for an age limit.
As a 57 year old male, would you have sex with an 18 year old girl?
That's how to think about it..
(even at my age I wouldn't..) I'm not saying it's right or wrong, but do 18 year olds really know what swinging is?
I don't really think so, not really..
The scary fact is an 18 year old's parents - chances are would be the same age or even younger as ourselves.
 
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Also I do remember a friend of my ex-wife who said that this young guy was chatting her up when she was in London and she said I'm very sorry but your old enough to be my son. He replied yeah that's the point though that would be fun wouldn't it. She replied I don't think you get the point when I was younger I had a son who was adopted and he somewhere in London you 'could' be my son.
 
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Well I think that about sums it up then. I guess we are more sensible here in England
 
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As i said earlier, older doesnt always equal maturity..
Younger doesnt always equal imaturity.
Cliche but it is of course the person.
Mine has changes to suit.. its not cut n dry nor set in stone.. and has at the minute lowered considerably. Having said that... ive met this young lady socially before... shes very mature for her age... and sexualy wise could perhaps teach even, this seasoned experienced old timer, a thing or two. ;)
 

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As i said earlier, older doesnt always equal maturity..
Younger doesnt always equal imaturity.
Cliche but it is of course the person.
Mine has changes to suit.. its not cut n dry nor set in stone.. and has at the minute lowered considerably. Having said that... ive met this young lady socially before... shes very mature for her age... and sexualy wise could perhaps teach even, this seasoned experienced old timer, a thing or two. ;)
Well that's a hint bomb... :whistle: