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Are you a positive swinger?
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Are you a positive swinger?
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Actually..the vast majority of posts I see from you wonderful peeps on Social Swinging are funny or positive, but you must have come across a complainer or two on the scene!
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Having read your article and this post, it’s safe to say we definitely know the type you mean (the moaners) and yes there’s definitely one or two around, but as you pointed out - everyone’s friendly and fun, so it’s in the minority.Purple Mamba Club submitted a new Article:
Are you a positive swinger?
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You know, I like you LoobyYes there are an odd one or two and when I say odd I'm not referring to them as people but more in terms of small numbers. I suppose we all have off days but if I'm having an off day I do just that ...stay off the forums and not post things that are snippy or might cause offence or controversy. I'm all for an easy life.
Negative posts are more detrimental to the individual that posts than the site but as we're all friends on here we'll give some leeway. If you're just plain rude then all bets are off...
I know you do lovely ....you're too scared to say anything differentYou know, I like you Loobyx
Soooo true!I know you do lovely ....you're too scared to say anything different
I promise to get some to you....@Purple Mamba Club
To be honest, I think there's too many negative people involved in all this as is. We tend to try and avoid them in honesty as it's not something we want to be involved in. There's enough crap in life without then having to deal with moaning, negative and picky people. This whole lifestyle is for fun and enjoyment. Leave the moaning and whingeing out of it.
As for us, I'd say personally we're very positive people. Very very rarely will anyone ever see or hear us moan or complain about anything.
Unless it's someone promising me homemade marmalade for over 2 years and I've still not had any of course!
Why thank you!I promise to get some to you....
You know you love me despite not having got your marmalade xx
Thought you were going to call me a tart for a minute. ..Why thank you!
I do and you know it... smooth talker youxx
Now would that thought or phrase had even crossed my mind do you think?Thought you were going to call me a tart for a minute. ..
Yes and yes it fits very nicely thank you...Now would that thought or phrase had even crossed my mind do you think?
But if the cap fits and all that xx
Yes there are an odd one or two and when I say odd I'm not referring to them as people but more in terms of small numbers. I suppose we all have off days but if I'm having an off day I do just that ...stay off the forums and not post things that are snippy or might cause offence or controversy. I'm all for an easy life.
Negative posts are more detrimental to the individual that posts than the site but as we're all friends on here we'll give some leeway. If you're just plain rude then all bets are off...
That's a really good strategy ..... I too learned the hard wayI learned the hard way! More wiser for it now.
If I'm feeling low, I come off all social media and text a friend, who'll usually call me as soon as, or take me out for lunch or something.
I learned the hard way! More wiser for it now.
If I'm feeling low, I come off all social media and text a friend, who'll usually call me as soon as, or take me out for lunch or something.
That's a really good strategy ..... I too learned the hard way
So what are you doing here then ?It's fair to say, I think some/more others should note this strategy. If not in a good one, get off and go and chill somewhere.x
Oh now that is wicked!So what are you doing here then ?
I think everyone is different, I would say most people have shit days but it's how you handle it, I spoke on the phone to a member here not so long back and they asked me, do I get bad days where I can't be arsed?
The answer to that is yes, I had a very tough time last here and took some time off, when I came back the date I had left was a reminder of what happened and I was stuck in a time warp. I sat here through that day crying, you would never have known, good old pearls with a crack and a joke.
The person I was speaking to couldn't believe it and said, " I would never have guessed with you being so bouncy on here"
So I guess we all handle things differently but for me no matter how crap a day is I can still carry on, I know people who can't and have to walk away from the forums.
I think having a positive attitude helps and I've always been the same, there isn't much that does get me down.. Well @Admin now and again with his nagging
BraveHe is such a nag isn't he?
Right I'm off before he realises that's twice in the same thread that I've poked fun at him.....
You'd be lost without me nagging I'll have you know.He is such a nag isn't he?
Right I'm off before he realises that's twice in the same thread that I've poked fun at him.....
You'd be lost without me nagging I'll have you know.
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