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It can be done lol....extremely rampant...filthy....needful sex xx
Agree.. nowt wrong with the needy hot sex.... but the hours of kissing touching and slow, delicious build up is my favourite..should never just be average. Tx
 
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I think it just depends on the situation and mood. It can be right but then taking time is just as good.

Agreed @Terryg xxx
Nah.

I had this chap over one afternoon; billed himself as the great lover. Teacher at a private school, showed up in an Alfa Romeo and wearing an Armani suit. He came inside 15 mins and I was so annoyed I a) spunked on his nice suit ("Oh I'm soooo sorry!" then b) gave him such a stinging verification that he never came back to the site.

You have been warned!

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I tend to think people that have sex in under five minutes are more in a "lay back and think of England" type of sexual realationship.
Disagreed. @Pearls and I whilst mostly and usually are around an hour mark, there's been countless of times where it's a case of ripping each other's clothes off and immediately getting it on - finished within a few minutes. There's those times where it is rampant and hard. That's where the 5 mins mark comes in I'd say. It's not few and far between either. It can happen at any time or any moment. (y)
Lustful, intense, semi-aggressive. :)
 
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Disagreed. @Pearls and I whilst mostly and usually are around an hour mark, there's been countless of times where it's a case of ripping each other's clothes off and immediately getting it on - finished within a few minutes. There's those times where it is rampant and hard. That's where the 5 mins mark comes in I'd say. It's not few and far between either. It can happen at any time or any moment. (y)
Lustful, intense, semi-aggressive. :)
That's the ease and one of the joys of a long-term partner - it might be just what you want at that exact moment and then you try and remember whatever it was you were doing beforehand...

But, my point is this, for a meet I'd be looking for at least an hour and anything under 15 mins and I'd be well pissed off.
 
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That's the ease and one of the joys of a long-term partner - it might be just what you want at that exact moment and then you try and remember whatever it was you were doing beforehand...

But, my point is this, for a meet I'd be looking for at least an hour and anything under 15 mins and I'd be well pissed off.
Of course, but my point and post was a direct response to @Lovernotfighter and his post;
I tend to think people that have sex in under five minutes are more in a "lay back and think of England" type of sexual realationship.
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Disagreed. @Pearls and I whilst mostly and usually are around an hour mark, there's been countless of times where it's a case of ripping each other's clothes off and immediately getting it on - finished within a few minutes. There's those times where it is rampant and hard. That's where the 5 mins mark comes in I'd say. It's not few and far between either. It can happen at any time or any moment. (y)
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Asolutely agree with this. I can guarantee me and said fella certainly werent laying back thinking of England. It was more...jesus christ lets getnit on right now!!!!!! It worked for us at the time so im more than happy xxxx
 
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Disagreed. @Pearls and I whilst mostly and usually are around an hour mark, there's been countless of times where it's a case of ripping each other's clothes off and immediately getting it on - finished within a few minutes. There's those times where it is rampant and hard. That's where the 5 mins mark comes in I'd say. It's not few and far between either. It can happen at any time or any moment. (y)
Lustful, intense, semi-aggressive. :)
I never thought about that way, it's probably just one of those silly ideas I get.
 
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I never thought about that way, it's probably just one of those silly ideas I get.
Not at all Mr LNF. Nothing silly about any of that. I think Joe had it right in this bit;
That's the ease and one of the joys of a long-term partner - it might be just what you want at that exact moment and then you try and remember whatever it was you were doing beforehand...
It's one of the many things that comes with being a couple I guess my friend. (y)
 
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personally for me it all starts with suggestive texts.. the "build up " is all important.. sex is in the mind... and that can be days before anything actually happens... then getting ready for the day..preparing the " scene" is also part of the fun... candles...( i know it's a cliche but its just the right mood lighting) ...along with some good music ..not blaring ..jut the right volume to hear ..each other.. and for me cumming is not the goal.. it is enjoying, sorry wrong word..savouring every moment .. that for me is SEX :)
 

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While reading a recent article

Statistics are showing On average, British couples have sex once to twice a week.

Below is the average amount of time people spend while having


% of the people Average sex time
20% 1 - 5 minutes
35% 6 - 10 minutes
25% 11 - 15 minutes
15% 15 - 30 minutes
5% longer than 30 minutes


Are you average or above or below the national averages

Personally I was surprised the Length of time people are spending having sex ... 20% only having sex for 1-5 mins minutes

Sx


It depends, for example the first day I am back with @Miss-Sexy-Legs it's a case of rip your clothes off and simply get down to the sex, other days we can spend ages with BDSM foreplay, over 30 minutes isn't unusual. I guess we are no different from anyone else, it really depends on how horny we are feeling at the time and how much time we have. It doesn't really matter how long it takes, what does matter is that we try to satisfy each others needs as best we can.