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Newbie over here.
Not too sure why I'm here lol.
Been to one swingers club and the people were really nice - it's nice to be amongst nice people. They were freely and happily talking about sex with other people, yet it didn't seem odd/embarrassing/a joke like it is when you have those 'office' conversations. I'm not sure if I was intrigued or curious or just comfortable but I felt at peace talking in that way.
People on here are all really nice too (think there's a trend here (y)) and I'm not joking when I say I don't think that's a coincidence - I sense people who have this approach to life are generally happier, not bitter or selfish, and I like people like this.
I'm single, I enjoy sex, with different people, and whilst I'm not here to just to hook up, I'm single, I enjoy sex, with different people ;) - feels like a reasonable site to be part of right !

The sex (based on my limited experience of meeting number one) was cool, I was proper buzzing, and I haven't worked out why. Maybe it felt a bit naughty, knowing that I was having sex with a woman, when I had only met her and her husband 30 minutes earlier, and her husband was ok with it.
The second time (same party) was in front of about 15 people - if I had to stand in front of 15 people and give a presentation, I'd shit myself, but there I was having sex in front of strangers and I didn't give a damn.
I'm not a big fan of conformity, I like to walk my own path, and swinging as a lifestyle compliments that way of thinking IMO.

I guess I don't want to die not having experienced stuff. I see friends in their 'normal' relationships and I think they're missing out - i want to have fun, I want it to be relaxed and enjoyable, no set rules or expectations, something that gets the heart pumping from time to time.

As Bon Jovi said, "live while I'm alive, sleep when I'm dead"

Anyway, hope you all made it to the end :sleep:
 
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meet_the_fockers

Newbie over here.
Not too sure why I'm here lol.
Been to one swingers club and the people were really nice - it's nice to be amongst nice people. They were freely and happily talking about sex with other people, yet it didn't seem odd/embarrassing/a joke like it is when you have those 'office' conversations. I'm not sure if I was intrigued or curious or just comfortable but I felt at peace talking in that way.
People on here are all really nice too (think there's a trend here (y)) and I'm not joking when I say I don't think that's a coincidence - I sense people who have this approach to life are generally happier, not bitter or selfish, and I like people like this.
I'm single, I enjoy sex, with different people, and whilst I'm not here to just to hook up, I'm single, I enjoy sex, with different people ;) - feels like a reasonable site to be part of right !

The sex (based on my limited experience of meeting number one) was cool, I was proper buzzing, and I haven't worked out why. Maybe it felt a bit naughty, knowing that I was having sex with a woman, when I had only met her and her husband 30 minutes earlier, and her husband was ok with it.
The second time (same party) was in front of about 15 people - if I had to stand in front of 15 people and give a presentation, I'd shit myself, but there I was having sex in front of strangers and I didn't give a damn.
I'm not a big fan of conformity, I like to walk my own path, and swinging as a lifestyle compliments that way of thinking IMO.

I guess I don't want to die not having experienced stuff. I see friends in their 'normal' relationships and I think they're missing out - i want to have fun, I want it to be relaxed and enjoyable, no set rules or expectations, something that gets the heart pumping from time to time.

As Bon Jovi said, "live while I'm alive, sleep when I'm dead"

Anyway, hope you all made it to the end :sleep:
Well @RobbieFutuo thankyou for your honest reply.. this is exactly what i was hoping for.. xx
 

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Newbie over here.
Not too sure why I'm here lol.
Been to one swingers club and the people were really nice - it's nice to be amongst nice people. They were freely and happily talking about sex with other people, yet it didn't seem odd/embarrassing/a joke like it is when you have those 'office' conversations. I'm not sure if I was intrigued or curious or just comfortable but I felt at peace talking in that way.
People on here are all really nice too (think there's a trend here (y)) and I'm not joking when I say I don't think that's a coincidence - I sense people who have this approach to life are generally happier, not bitter or selfish, and I like people like this.
I'm single, I enjoy sex, with different people, and whilst I'm not here to just to hook up, I'm single, I enjoy sex, with different people ;) - feels like a reasonable site to be part of right !

The sex (based on my limited experience of meeting number one) was cool, I was proper buzzing, and I haven't worked out why. Maybe it felt a bit naughty, knowing that I was having sex with a woman, when I had only met her and her husband 30 minutes earlier, and her husband was ok with it.
The second time (same party) was in front of about 15 people - if I had to stand in front of 15 people and give a presentation, I'd shit myself, but there I was having sex in front of strangers and I didn't give a damn.
I'm not a big fan of conformity, I like to walk my own path, and swinging as a lifestyle compliments that way of thinking IMO.

I guess I don't want to die not having experienced stuff. I see friends in their 'normal' relationships and I think they're missing out - i want to have fun, I want it to be relaxed and enjoyable, no set rules or expectations, something that gets the heart pumping from time to time.

As Bon Jovi said, "live while I'm alive, sleep when I'm dead"

Anyway, hope you all made it to the end :sleep:
Indeed that is some reply. (y) :)


can i say i'm here just to be me, that i do hope to meet people in time and even though i'm new i'm trying not to have expectations
Best way to approach it my friend. :)
 
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Scrunchy&Muffet

@meetthefockers @Admin I'm on and off cos not feeling great.

We have been swinging for over a year now and love it.

We didn't come into it with any expectations other than we wanted to have fun and boy have we had fun.

Wouldn't change anything about what we do and how we do it xxxxx
 
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"Experienced" swingers here (though I could add that term to the other thread.. eurgh). Quite simply, we're here, on the site, because we were looking for friendly people to chat to; to, hopefully, increase our circle of friends; to widen our area of experience outside of the (admittedly exciting) smallish world that had formed around us.

Bloody happy with the results, so far :D
 
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meet_the_fockers

"Experienced" swingers here (though I could add that term to the other thread.. eurgh). Quite simply, we're here, on the site, because we were looking for friendly people to chat to; to, hopefully, increase our circle of friends; to widen our area of experience outside of the (admittedly exciting) smallish world that had formed around us.

Bloody happy with the results, so far :D
Trollopes :D x
 

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@meetthefockers @Admin I'm on and off cos not feeling great.

We have been swinging for over a year now and love it.

We didn't come into it with any expectations other than we wanted to have fun and boy have we had fun.

Wouldn't change anything about what we do and how we do it xxxxx
Nom nom. Getting stuck right in too! :eek:
Jaysus.. Everywhere I go, Scrunchy this, scrunchy that.. Dew dew. ;) xx
 
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"Experienced" swingers here (though I could add that term to the other thread.. eurgh). Quite simply, we're here, on the site, because we were looking for friendly people to chat to; to, hopefully, increase our circle of friends; to widen our area of experience outside of the (admittedly exciting) smallish world that had formed around us.

Bloody happy with the results, so far :D
Sounds amazing! Having lots of fun of course. ;) :p


So where the fook is that pearls??
Told ya, buried under me patio. :D
She will return, don't worry. :) x
 
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Mootje

Where the bloodyhell is everyone? @scrunchymuffet @Therapon @Scrumps @Mootje
OOohhhh, Did u bloody missed me :eek: :D, U should have know I WAS BUSY, do u ever read my status hehehehehe, emmmm why i am here, Guess i started a bloody Thread " A little humor" Pmsl.. Ok now serious, errrmmm well, i am curious u can say about swinging, never been among swingers be4, so i am totally a Swing Virgin mOot, beside, really lot of very nice people, funny, sexy, friendly and very very few grumpy ones, in total i love to socialize and get to make new friends and i love sex, so u do the maths, what a perfect place to be, end of serious phrase.
emmm and if i didnt had sex well at least i ll be Perving and Wxxxing hahahahaha..
mOot Style @meet_the_fockers
 
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