I'd like to think I'm a respectful guy generally, doesn't matter what your gender M/F or trans I try to be respectful and avoid inapropriate behavior. What is inapropriate is hard to define these days as the goal posts are constantly moving.
So do I stare? Yes sometimes but not just at the ladies, I can't help it. someone or something catches my attention so I look and my addled old brain thinks WTF is that and by the time it finally resolves the issue I've been gawping for ages.
Do I say to my mates "I'd shag her!", first off I'd need some mates, but, no I may be thinking it but I keep it to myself. More often than not I'm thinking "gawd look at the state of that" or "not even with barge pole"
My views on how people dress, well I'm not going to suggest all you ladies go round wearing burkhas but some of the clothes you wear leave little to the imagination and you shouldn't be surprised at the attention they draw, I'm half expecting some wag of a clothes designer putting the VW logo on the crotch of his latest leggings.
Pet names, luv, chick, pet, darling, sweetheart the list goes on. I think in most cases no thought is given and no offence intended by those using these terms, unfortunately some will take offence.
Looking back as youngster I was often been influenced by the telly and films of the era, the likes of Minder and the Sweeny by todays standards had a really crap attitudes towards women and minorites etc. I'm not trying to justify the attitudes of the day, but we didn't really know any better back then.
