Ask Yourself...

... Why am I here!
@Admin and @Pearls have invested a shed load of time and money into this site so that we have something better than f*b and other such places...
I am the most guilty of all.. Or was.. When it came to attacks, or defending this site..
I hated cock profiles.. Hated non pv accounts.. Hated stupid avatars and avatar names.. Hated everyone actually and attacked them all..
I found that I was the problem so I left... It was the right thing to do at the time..
I am still as passionate about this site as I was when it first started...
So what has changed?
Me!

I am here to meet people and to help the site grow..
I do my best to have fun in the forums and struggle.. But strive to hold back on my negativity... But double trouble is what @Admin named us almost immediately...

As a newbie seeing attacks and negativity in the forums what will they think?
Will it help the site grow?

Most of you are not aware how many people we bring to the site as we promote externally.. But we don't always bring the right people..
Some people... Like us... Will have a history or ties to another site.. So comparison is inevitable but frustrating for others..

Ask yourself why you are here...
Ask yourself why you are on other sites..
Remind yourself of the difference between them and focus on the site you are currently on... As we do..
As for the people that bug the shit out of you... Block them.. Report them.. But don't publicly rant about them... It's the wrong message...
Yes I have been guilty of it in the past... But I realised my stupidty and took a 6 month break....
Just breathe before reacting...
XxxBibaxxX

DiamondJoe said:

*retches noisily*

But yes, it's friendly but not in a cultish way

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You sure?
We all dance by the moonlight.
Thinks of *the wickerman*

Why am i/we here hmmm.
I jumped ship from a site full of prima donnas and bullies who quite frankly looked like horses asses, and had no right to put themselves upon a pedestal.
I found this place, and hit it like a whirlwind.
Poor Admin.. didnt know whether to laugh or cry. I believe i still have the ability to do the same, to him and staff occasionally.
I am the rebel of the staff, never afraid to disagree with them all, never afraid to say er no no no.. our delightful admin has lost sleep over me.. im usually right.
Ah our delightful biba.
Both of us strong independant.
We did lock horns.. we did thrash it out, and have become dare i say it, good freinds.
She is here for the good of the site, as am i, there are a few benefits of course. .

There are and always will be people here who do not 'jell' sometimes its like trying to fit a round peg, into a square hole, it just wont fit.
I have a real fondness for our members, as do our members of us and this site.
Sometimes we are publicly, privately attacked.
We are the staff and usually the first to be attacked for want of a better word.
Sometimes we do have to make descions, that we dont neccesarily agree with on personal level, such is life.

Unfortunately negativity breeds negativy, members see the site attacked, 'freinds' attacked, and its only human nature to close ranks.
It can be hard being staff, and keeping shtum...
This site is unique, im very proud of the way its grown and gone from strength to strength.

DiamondJoe said:

I've seen things you can't possibly imagine...

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Show me young man.

YeOldeWitchDoc said:

Be careful what you wish for

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Closes eyes.. and blows...
Out the candle.. oooo yummy..

Admin said:

There's some very true comments here.. Some good memories have been made and some good laughs too. There's also been a lot of trouble along the way. We've seen people defend the site and people attack the site. But! We're still here.
I don't condone public flogging of other members, but people also have to have their say too and they have that right to - as long as it's not inflammatory.. Fact is, if we were all the same - the world would be a boring place.

All we need to remember is to respect people's opinions, whether we agree with them or not. You are entitled to an opinion as much as the other person.

You do, and you know that. x


Oh and for the record, I did name @The_Bibas Double Trouble, and even played with their account one night, unbeknown to them - they took it for what it was; a joke and a laugh.

Remember this?
Just going to leave it here...

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You played with our account.... Dirty old man

XxxBibaxxX

DiamondJoe said:

I've seen things you can't possibly imagine...

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I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhäuser Gate. All those moments will be lost, in time, like tears in rain.

We are here to make friends, make play friends, have fun and great sex. We are not elsewhere Because We DON'T want... stress, abuse, previously stated pre-madonnas, and wasted time. I (Ste) have made mistakes and even upset at least 2 (made errors and said the wrong thing, we all do that sometimes). Now we are sorted marriage and visa wise we are ready and up for fun .
We met a couple at the fof recently and met them and had a great night, they are on f#b. Regardless of that we are not tempted to join them there. Not saying we never will, but other sites need to become as 'sorted' as this site is first.

SteLinda said:

I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhäuser Gate. All those moments will be lost, in time, like tears in rain.

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You do know that the remake won't live up to expectations...
I still dream of electric sheep

XxxBibaxxX

The_Bibas said:

You do know that the remake won't live up to expectations...
I still dream of electric sheep

XxxBibaxxX

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Did you know channel 4 are running a series of Phillip K Dicks short stories...
Electric Dreams starts on Sunday September 17 at 9pm on Channel 4.

SteLinda said:

Did you know channel 4 are running a series of Phillip K Dicks short stories...
Electric Dreams starts on Sunday September 17 at 9pm on Channel 4.

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I do.
But as I have read all his books I think I will be disappointed.. Only minority report and the original blade runner came close to the books for me.. And I can't stand Tom cruise so minority report was already on to a negative

XxxBibaxxX