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Deleted member 4389
Be more flirty and hot things up if its reciprocal I'd say. But be very careful to make sure it's in private though girlie. Beware it's easy to get carried away
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Scrunchy&Muffet
Hahahha is it? Really
. Yeah im not aversed to a bit of flirty and dirty chat here and there. Thing is it usually takes alot to shock me or offend me and if it does offend....i will tell you or put you in your place and its forgotten. Maybe a forum thread where dirty talk is allowed might be the way to go. Anyone posting in the thread accepts that it might get a bit saucy in there. It then takes away the uncertainty of do they want to talk dirty or not xxxx
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Deleted member 3411
I think @Juicy would be happy for that having already had one thread of hers nipped in the bud for being too explicit
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I won't be forgetting it took me a lot of effort to calm downI know not of what you speaklol xx
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Now I would be happy to be in close proximity if juicy and scrunchie got all hot and bothered together
(Mrs) I tend to find that when i chat to people face to face i come across as a person that i really am not.. I may be larger than some i have seen in the VA, I may be not as young or attractive as other but saying that I am still a woman who really enjoy fun and frolics. The most difficult thing I have found to deal with is how to actually invite someone to play. I once made a funny comment about girl on girl fun and the other female said "sorry hun I dis miss you" being new to this I didnt actually know what that meant but it still made my already low confidence lower! therefore that night there was no interaction. On line if you dont like what is said there is no obligation to reply you just scan through till some thing sparks an interest. Personally I prefer people who are themselves online or face to face.
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It's fine to get carried away in the forums on some things of course, but yeah.. .. x
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NigelandJulie
There is nothing wrong with a little sexy chat 
and flirty chat built up slowly, but when you get would you like to suck my cock or would love to lick your pussy on the second line of chat..the first line being evening it just pisses us off
which we have had even on here 
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and flirty chat built up slowly, but when you get would you like to suck my cock or would love to lick your pussy on the second line of chat..the first line being evening it just pisses us off which we have had even on here :wank:
Agree with blanco , and a few others on this one
We just chat normally and let it develope naturally , exactly as you would face to face meeting someone for the first time , save anything explicit for when it's appropriate , and yes by all means send a nice pic but it doesn't have to be a close up of the mighty sword or resemble something you'd see going pot holing
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If anyone claiming to be a female contacts us and it's full on from the first message then we just assume it's a fake and move on
I personally have no issues talking to the opposite species , but my wife finds it difficult ,purely because the end game is sex and even tho that might not be the topic of conversation it's something that she is aware of , I do try to coax her into doing more of the chatting and it really does help if the other girl puts the effort in .
We just chat normally and let it develope naturally , exactly as you would face to face meeting someone for the first time , save anything explicit for when it's appropriate , and yes by all means send a nice pic but it doesn't have to be a close up of the mighty sword or resemble something you'd see going pot holing
) .If anyone claiming to be a female contacts us and it's full on from the first message then we just assume it's a fake and move on
I personally have no issues talking to the opposite species , but my wife finds it difficult ,purely because the end game is sex and even tho that might not be the topic of conversation it's something that she is aware of , I do try to coax her into doing more of the chatting and it really does help if the other girl puts the effort in .
Slowly, courteously, and let it develop naturally, two fast up front, and the conversation comes across as needy,
Just our thoughts x
Just our thoughts x
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Deleted member 2179
Hi, we love the chat and although it's mainly me ( Janey ) I selfishly use it as my form of flirting and foreplay as I slowly build up my own confidence, I find it easier from here to say no to someone I'm not comfortable with and happily encourage others that I have got to know to be more graphic as and when the mood suits. I feel uncomfortable with the heavy flirting when I don't ( for the moment ) take it to the next level of meeting up etc and feel dreadful that they think I am just teasing or leading them on that's all for me. Each to their own hey.
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Marky191268
Slow build up of chat is good, as a single guy I would never start heavy. As the name of the site suggests, social chat first
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Deleted member 3175
Being new to this I find it a little bit hard (oh errrr!) to chat to people over message but have found that being in here is great. It's made me (S) a little less timid and am beginning to cum! Out of my shell. G is quite the same but we're both very firtly especially with the sexy people on here. Being able to show our pics and the comments received has made it easier, you're all too kind! And when we have our first meet up with anyone I'm hoping chatting beforehand will let us "slip into it" easily! lol
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Pearls
I'm not into the whole chat thing, tbh I'm old fashioned and like to talk face to face so meeting people would only happen if I/we have met you socially, Oh and I cant stand dirty chat, just not me and never has been
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Muddy boots... dirty shorts...good washing powder helpsI'm not into the whole chat thing, tbh I'm old fashioned and like to talk face to face so meeting people would only happen if I/we have met you socially, Oh and I cant stand dirty chat, just not me and never has been
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Deleted member 3411
That's why I like the fact the chat here can be voice, or even cam. Less likely to have misunderstandings and far more intimate.
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Pearls
I love dirt, always cleaning up crap here with all the men in the houseMuddy boots... dirty shorts...good washing powder helps
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louise1970
There is no better way than to get to chatting as hard as it is for alot of us.it's finding comman grounds and boundaries from the start when getting to know some one that way you can decide if it's only going to be a friendly chat from time to time on here before approaching or making any meets I guess x
I love to chat , anything and everything , could talk the hind legs off a donkey , (Mrs) she's the quieter one and tends to come on the sites only when I'm with her , happier to let me do most of the talking and she just adds her bit when needed .
Both of us though aren't comfortable with full on sex talk or anything too graphic , happy to talk about what we are hoping will happen if we do meet someone , certainly not prudes , and very keen to know what the other person is expecting/wanting/hoping for but it can be talked about without having to drag it into the gutter .
If anyone , and they have in the past , comes full on at us from the start then it's thanks but no thanks .
Both of us though aren't comfortable with full on sex talk or anything too graphic , happy to talk about what we are hoping will happen if we do meet someone , certainly not prudes , and very keen to know what the other person is expecting/wanting/hoping for but it can be talked about without having to drag it into the gutter .
If anyone , and they have in the past , comes full on at us from the start then it's thanks but no thanks .
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Bumping an oldie I know, but I do wonder how many people actually chat dirty, naughty chat over flirty banty chat?
Do you chat naughty/dirty or are you flanter type peeps?