Confessions Of The Swinging Scene

[The_Bibas]

Well its simple to answer.. You meet people, have a drink.. Great sex . Easy
Or is it?
In fact It's hard work.. Most people out there are fake; keyboard wankers; voyeurs; non verified or all of the above...
A very high percentage won't turn up... Our record stands at 44 no shows in a row...
It's not as easy or as glamorous as you think..
People use fake pictures and videos etc..
Twitter is mainly false...
It's why I nagged and nagged @Admin to go down the photo verified path on here ..

So given all my issues why do I do it?
I do it because of the adrenaline rush that lasts for days once it works.. It's addictive.... But it is a difficult journey, even for me...
That one meeting that puts all the bad ones to the back of your mind..
The thousands of messages I get a month that at best may produce three or so people that eventually lead to one meeting...
I am sure telesales has a better conversion rate .

Sure there are short cuts of course, lowering my standards or going to clubs etc but again it depends on what you want to get out of this .. And clubs still don't offer guarantees... While diluting my fantasy isn't an option ..

As for the people who contact me... Escorts can sometimes work out to be cheaper than booking trains hotels etc ...... But you don't go down that road .. So why do it ?...
Why does this scene attract you?
Why are you here and what success are you having.?

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[Lovernotfighter]

Honestly I'm not sure what my answer is, probably it's a combination and unique mix of loads of things, but mainly for the fun and openness I think.

 

[The_Bibas]

Honestly I'm not sure what my answer is, probably it's a combination and unique mix of loads of things, but mainly for the fun and openness I think.

Yes . I am sure it's difficult one to answer as it is different for everyone. . I sometimes think why the hell am I still bothering... But here I still am

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[SexyNix]

We couldn't agree more. It is hard work with A LOT of disappointments (we just had another one last night) but when you do meet someone who you click with and, for us, stay friends with it makes it all worth while. So we'll just keep plodding on, you just never know what's round the corner - good or bad xxxx

 

[Connie john]

We both enjoy the adrenaline rush, as to time wasters well thats par for the course but your record of 44 we thinks you need to change your selection process, dont get me wrong we had a few over the years but the genuine one's make up for it. We always arrange meeting so if it turns into a no show at least we are out enjoying ourselves. Hhave you tried using a payg mobile ?? wishing you all the luck for future meets. cc

 

[Antogs]

@The_Bibas

Ah come on Biba, you've got literally thousands of men lusting after you (and I'm one of them ) and you have the terrible job of picking which one is going to be the lucky man who gets to fuck you. I doubt many of them have the inconvenience of having to sift through hundreds of applications from lusty women each month before deciding which one to bestow their favours upon.

And ok, sometimes the spineless shit you choose lets you down
So what can you do?....oh yes, pick another one off the list, or wait a day or two and have dozens more to choose from.

Has it occurred to you that the rest of the swinging community might just feel a tad jealous of your position as a goddess worshipped by thousands? I can easily see how intoxicating that position must be, I know I wouldn't be able to give it up.

Besides what else would you do.....knitting?

p.s. you can't stop anyway, we'd miss you too much xx

 

[The_Bibas]

We couldn't agree more. It is hard work with A LOT of disappointments (we just had another one last night) but when you do meet someone who you click with and, for us, stay friends with it makes it all worth while. So we'll just keep plodding on, you just never know what's round the corner - good or bad xxxx

Exactly



We have recently met a great guy . Seen him socially several times before taking it further .. Had a great night .
Never heard from him again .
Swinging is as weird as the people who do it

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[Antogs]

@The_Bibas I've just re-read your post
FORTY FUCKING FOUR !!!
That's crazy, no wonder you're pissed off.
Mind you, it's your own fault.
I did tell you I was prepared to lick your pussy for any length of time you wished and that I would definitely turn up.
But no, I'm too old and unfit according to you. Well, let me tell you, missy, my tongue is as fit and strong as when I was 25 years old, so there

 

[The_Bibas]

@The_Bibas

Ah come on Biba, you've got literally thousands of men lusting after you (and I'm one of them ) and you have the terrible job of picking which one is going to be the lucky man who gets to fuck you. I doubt many of them have the inconvenience of having to sift through hundreds of applications from lusty women each month before deciding which one to bestow their favours upon.

And ok, sometimes the spineless shit you choose lets you down
So what can you do?....oh yes, pick another one off the list, or wait a day or two and have dozens more to choose from.

Has it occurred to you that the rest of the swinging community might just feel a tad jealous of your position as a goddess worshipped by thousands? I can easily see how intoxicating that position must be, I know I wouldn't be able to give it up.

Besides what else would you do.....knitting?

p.s. you can't stop anyway, we'd miss you too much xx

Lol ..
I have never looked at like that ..
But yes we do get a ridiculous amount of messages a day .. Sometimes over a thousand in a day... But it has always been that way and I guess we think that is the norm... As I said earlier its a different experience for everyone...

I owe you a big snog..
Xxxbibaxxx

 

[The_Bibas]

@The_Bibas I've just re-read your post
FORTY FUCKING FOUR !!!
That's crazy, no wonder you're pissed off.
Mind you, it's your own fault.
I did tell you I was prepared to lick your pussy for any length of time you wished and that I would definitely turn up.
But no, I'm too old and unfit according to you. Well, let me tell you, missy, my tongue is as fit and strong as when I was 25 years old, so there

Lol lol lol ..
I agree that lots of people would turn up and have their wicked way with me .. But its my fantasy and I won't dilute it ..
Besides I do the lottery every week too.. But I don't expect to win

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[The_Bibas]

We both enjoy the adrenaline rush, as to time wasters well thats par for the course but your record of 44 we thinks you need to change your selection process, dont get me wrong we had a few over the years but the genuine one's make up for it. We always arrange meeting so if it turns into a no show at least we are out enjoying ourselves. Hhave you tried using a payg mobile ?? wishing you all the luck for future meets. cc

We text
We video call
We talk on ******
Other than send the feckers a limousine ... I am open to suggestions...
Xxx

 

[Connie john]

Other than send the feckers a limousine

How about one of those prison vans , at least couldn't get away..lol..cc

 

[Antogs]

Lol lol lol ..
I agree that lots of people would turn up and have their wicked way with me .. But its my fantasy and I won't dilute it ..
Besides I do the lottery every week too.. But I don't expect to win

Xxxbibaxxx

To be honest Biba, I absolutely 100% agree that you should not lower your standards or what it is you're looking for. As you say, why dilute your fantasy?

I mean, if I was really hungry I might fantasise about having fillet steak but would probably be happy if I was offered a burger. Whereas I'm sure you know that if you're prepared to wait then at some point your steak will appear.

BTW I am known on here for taking written contracts very seriously so I will be holding you to that snog when I see you xx

 

[The_Bibas]

To be honest Biba, I absolutely 100% agree that you should not lower your standards or what it is you're looking for. As you say, why dilute your fantasy?

I mean, if I was really hungry I might fantasise about having fillet steak but would probably be happy if I was offered a burger. Whereas I'm sure you know that if you're prepared to wait then at some point your steak will appear.

BTW I am known on here for taking written contracts very seriously so I will be holding you to that snog when I see you xx

What is it with men and their stomachs... Food analogies... Omg . Seriously . Now shoes . Yes ... Or handbags .. But steak?

Men!

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[The_Bibas]

@Admin
Why can't this be copied and posted to twitter afterall it is a public forum .
Me thinks you haven't thought this through very well . .....

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[Antogs]

What is it with men and their stomachs... Food analogies... Omg . Seriously . Now shoes . Yes ... Or handbags .. But steak?

Men!

Xxxbibaxxx

Funny you should say that actually, I've no idea why I used a food analogy.
I'm not a big eater and I never eat red meat LOL (I was actually a vegetarian for 12 years) xx

 

[The_Bibas]

Funny you should say that actually, I've no idea why I used a food analogy.
I'm not a big eater and I never eat red meat LOL (I was actually a vegetarian for 12 years) xx

Well I do wear shoes. .

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[Admin]

@Admin
Why can't this be copied and posted to twitter afterall it is a public forum .
Me thinks you haven't thought this through very well . .....

Xxxbibaxxx

This can be Tweeted but seems not to show on mobile. I’ll Tweet it for you now xx

 

[The_Bibas]

This can be Tweeted but seems not to show on mobile. I’ll Tweet it for you now xx

Oooooooo did I find another broken thingy.... Lol

 

[Admin]

Oooooooo did I find another broken thingy.... Lol

It's by design really to make pages load faster by not having share buttons on mobile. However, I can (and will) make and add some as it's useful to share and most users are on mobile. x

 

[The_Bibas]

It's by design really to make pages load faster by not having share buttons on mobile. However, I can (and will) make and add some as it's useful to share and most users are on mobile. x

I found something that was broken
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Just saying

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[The_Bibas]

How about one of those prison vans , at least couldn't get away..lol..cc

Ironically . When I was arrested... Don't ask . I had the pleasure to escape my handcuffs in the back of one of those vans ..
Really pissed the man in blue off

Xxxbibaxxx

 

[Admin]

@Admin
Why can't this be copied and posted to twitter afterall it is a public forum .
Me thinks you haven't thought this through very well . .....

Xxxbibaxxx

This can be Tweeted but seems not to show on mobile. I’ll Tweet it for you now xx

Done. FB, Twitter, G+. Will look at other options such as Pinterest and so on at a later date. x

 

[DiamondJoe]

View attachment 50582Why does this scene attract you?
Why are you here and what success are you having.?

Xxxbibaxxx

What attracts me to the scene? The freely-available, uncomplicated, sometimes extremely rewarding sex.

Why am I here? SS specifically is where I splurge my brains. It's like one-way therapy.

What success are you having? I'm bide well, thanks for asking.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

It's like swinging is a full English breakfast and the fun you get out of it, is the brown sauce that goes over it. x

For us, it's the excitement, the fun, the laughter, the memories and the intensity it creates in our marriage. It creates a strong current between us both and we're drawn to each other more. x