Ok confidence comes in many ways.
looks
Personality
Work
Sex
So a man, and I base this on my man. Confident in being him, he is who he is and a confident person but not always in certain aspects, I won’t go into them but that slight vulnerability shows strength.
For sexual reasons then he has to be confident but if he isn’t then that also shows strength to show that.....
She can show a vulnerability, I find that a turn on. I couldn’t have someone stronger than me. Some will know what I mean.
Looks. Always be confident.
Work, be that person and don’t show weakness.
Confidence is a turn on in some respects but weakness can show empowerment ?