Exposé

[Lips_Pearls]

If you could and had the means, would you expose someone?
Without rules, without 'free speech' loool... would you? Could you?

You knew some stuff. knew some things... would you really expose that person?
Let's say, for example, they did a dirty on you and you had a platform for exposé - would you be that 'one' to do so?

risqué? Or normal progression of human interaction especially when faced with modern day society of online trolls?
Beautiful people, it's over to you................

 

[Deleted member 1030]

If you could and had the means, would you expose someone?
Without rules, without 'free speech' loool... would you? Could you?

You knew some stuff. knew some things... would you really expose that person?
Let's say, for example, they did a dirty on you and you had a platform for exposé - would you be that 'one' to do so?

risqué? Or normal progression of human interaction especially when faced with modern day society of online trolls?
Beautiful people, it's over to you................

No. Never. It's not my place to make that decision for someone.

 

[Looby&Lew]

Me neither...live and let live... I'd like to think that most people still have a conscience on which case they will have enough to deal with.

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Depends what they had done. But in general no I would not

 

[No longer with us]

I was always told:
Don't do to others what you wouldn't like them to do to you !!!
Probably the only rule I have never broken

 

[Vanezza]

Vanessa here and i'm a great believer in karma and unless it wasn't so bad that it was being spread to people i know and love then i let karma take the control because it will bite them on the bum.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

What goes around.

 

[Vanezza]

For me I honestly don't give a toss what people say or think about me, malicious people are everywhere and I've met my fill and don't have time for any more.
The difference comes when they are deliberately setting out to be nasty to others around me, then I would have words. I will not abide a bully or a liar that hurts others.

N xxx

 

[The_Bibas]

Wow
This is a really difficult one..
It of course depends on the circumstances....

A friend of mine went out with a notorious photographer.. He shagged everything.. Needless to say he was HIV and did not care who he passed on to.
My friend also contracted HIV and also slept around..
A girl in my street whom I knew had a threesome with them.. I wanted to say get tested but as I was not supposed to know that she had the threesome I kept quite...
The years roll on as they do and this girl gets a curable cancer.. But by now her immune system is shot.. She dies at age 33..
At the same time two other people come forward and report the photographer to the police as they too have contracted HIV..
The investigation goes on for ages.. The photographer tries to kill himself but fails.. Eventually he was given. 6years in prison for at least 20 cases...
He gets out next year and will face manslaughter charges for her death..
The girls family who own a restaurant are distraught.. Her father dies of a heart attack a few months after she died..

Yes I should have said something..
It haunts me..

But given what I have learnt I probably would come forward and expose them

X

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Ive thought about this.
If it was harming others.
Yes yes i would, and face the consequences.
Karma is ace.. but sometimes takes a little longer than i would like, or indeed should.

 

[Deleted member 6684]

I don't have anything sad as what Bibas' said. But I think it depends for me. If this was a relationship and I was in love or had a deep deep appreciation for the person, i would never expose anyone.

The only case I would so it is if they had done irreparable harm to me. Breaking bad - "I am the danger"!

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Don't do to others what you wouldn't like them to do to you !!

That reminds me of someone.......

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Wow
This is a really difficult one..
It of course depends on the circumstances....

A friend of mine went out with a notorious photographer.. He shagged everything.. Needless to say he was HIV and did not care who he passed on to.
My friend also contracted HIV and also slept around..
A girl in my street whom I knew had a threesome with them.. I wanted to say get tested but as I was not supposed to know that she had the threesome I kept quite...
The years roll on as they do and this girl gets a curable cancer.. But by now her immune system is shot.. She dies at age 33..
At the same time two other people come forward and report the photographer to the police as they too have contracted HIV..
The investigation goes on for ages.. The photographer tries to kill himself but fails.. Eventually he was given. 6years in prison for at least 20 cases...
He gets out next year and will face manslaughter charges for her death..
The girls family who own a restaurant are distraught.. Her father dies of a heart attack a few months after she died..

Yes I should have said something..
It haunts me..

But given what I have learnt I probably would come forward and expose them

X

Hindsight Biba. At the time you were caught in a situation that you never knew the depth of. I can see why it haunts you but you shouldn't let. Yeah I know it's easy to say, I mean no disrespect but how could you have known? Nobody would want to be in that position. Sorry you were in such a position in the first place.

 

[The-Gent]

I was always told:
Don't do to others what you wouldn't like them to do to you !!!
Probably the only rule I have never broken

its good enough for me you can do anything to me then xx

 

[The-Gent]

What goes around.

Nice round if you dont mind me saying xx

 

[Ambrosial]

Such a moral conundrum; it's horrible to be hurt and it's natural to lash out (fight or flight). I think the @The_Bibas example is just one of those horrible situations where you are damned if you do and damned if you don't and I wouldn't know what I would do in that regard; it's up to everyone to manage their sexual/personal safety, but also we are kind and considerate human beings (in the main), to be honest in that scenario I wouldn't know....

...my own experience? Well I had the opportunity to expose someone that really hurt me, someone I fell for, spent three years living with to discover that she had been having BB gangbang parties on those "working away from home" days.... reading over 100 verifications of how "great she was" kinda sent me a little bonkers for a while; so did the battery of tests that carried on for months after we finally ended to ensure my sexual/personal health hadn't been compromised..... it really wasn't pleasant, it truly hurt, but time does heal, I am glad I didn't out her to her family, friends or work. I guess after the pain subsided I felt she was pretty mixed up (still is I hear) and that me doing that wouldn't help. A history of attempted suicide and other "issues" tempered my anger at the time, yes I could score "points" but the consequences? Now its 4 or so years down the line, life moves on, we all do, for me, there was no lasting consequences, just an unhappy memory that fades a little more each day; had I "outed" them, I feel I wouldn't have healed so quick, that it would still be a part of my life, rather than something to recall.....

...once again, a million words just to say "No I wouldn't" I demand give me a maximum words I can use thingy!

 

[DiamondJoe]

If you could and had the means, would you expose someone?
Without rules, without 'free speech' loool... would you? Could you?

You knew some stuff. knew some things... would you really expose that person?
Let's say, for example, they did a dirty on you and you had a platform for exposé - would you be that 'one' to do so?

risqué? Or normal progression of human interaction especially when faced with modern day society of online trolls?
Beautiful people, it's over to you................

Depends on what the person/people have done, whether it's a matter of bent morality or evidence of broken laws.

And it depends on who the person/people are - are they public figures who have made hypocritical claims or private individuals who've been a bit stupid.

For what it's worth, I think that private should remain just that - unless there is a public interest angle

 

[The_Bibas]

Hindsight Biba. At the time you were caught in a situation that you never knew the depth of. I can see why it haunts you but you shouldn't let. Yeah I know it's easy to say, I mean no disrespect but how could you have known? Nobody would want to be in that position. Sorry you were in such a position in the first place.

Except I did know that they are both infected and I kind of knew her..
Of course I could not have predicted the cancer... But I am fully aware of what hiv can do..
XxxBibaxxX

 

[Ambrosial]

Except I did know that they are both infected and I kind of knew her..
Of course I could not have predicted the cancer... But I am fully aware of what hiv can do..
XxxBibaxxX

I don't think you can beat yourself up on this. It was a truly awful situation, but the friend could have played "safe", could have made her own judgements... to be honest, I have no idea what I would do in this situation and can only empathise... Its crap, that's what it is xx

 

[Scott&Lexi]

If you could and had the means, would you expose someone?
Without rules, without 'free speech' loool... would you? Could you?

You knew some stuff. knew some things... would you really expose that person?
Let's say, for example, they did a dirty on you and you had a platform for exposé - would you be that 'one' to do so?

risqué? Or normal progression of human interaction especially when faced with modern day society of online trolls?
Beautiful people, it's over to you................

No it's just not my personality no matter what they had done to me!

The feeling id get after I'd spilt the beans would not be worth it, the guilt and that awful feeling id lowered myself to their tone would be stuck with me! Xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

From my perpective, its not about what has been done to me. Im made of stronger stuff.
Its more about what i would do if i saw others getting deeply hurt..

 

[Scott&Lexi]

Wow
This is a really difficult one..
It of course depends on the circumstances....

A friend of mine went out with a notorious photographer.. He shagged everything.. Needless to say he was HIV and did not care who he passed on to.
My friend also contracted HIV and also slept around..
A girl in my street whom I knew had a threesome with them.. I wanted to say get tested but as I was not supposed to know that she had the threesome I kept quite...
The years roll on as they do and this girl gets a curable cancer.. But by now her immune system is shot.. She dies at age 33..
At the same time two other people come forward and report the photographer to the police as they too have contracted HIV..
The investigation goes on for ages.. The photographer tries to kill himself but fails.. Eventually he was given. 6years in prison for at least 20 cases...
He gets out next year and will face manslaughter charges for her death..
The girls family who own a restaurant are distraught.. Her father dies of a heart attack a few months after she died..

Yes I should have said something..
It haunts me..

But given what I have learnt I probably would come forward and expose them

X

Wow what a story! Huge love to you biba.... I'm not sure any of us could comment on what we would have done with that sort of information! End of day we are all responsible for our own sexual health.... Geeeezzzz you can't carry that responsibility around your shoulders forever xx

 

[Lips_Pearls]

From my perpective, its not about what has been done to me. Im made of stronger stuff.
Its more about what i would do if i saw others getting deeply hurt..

Yes.... definitely. X

 

[Baldrick]

@The_Bibas that sounds like a horrid situation to be in but don't beat yourself up about it. You were not responsible for what happened and the blame does not lie with you.

It's easy to say what we would do but I guess we don't really know until put in that situation.
Kaz loves nowt better than to stick her beak in and would probably expose anyone. She's not watertight when it comes to keeping secrets.
Baldrick tends to stay out of other people's business (not his shit, not his smell he would say) but if he knows about something he considers morally wrong somebody's gonna know about it.

BNK
Xxx

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Such a dangerous opportunity for some. Golden rule; never discuss anyone within this lifestyle and never out anyone.....
But what if you could?