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Wow
This is a really difficult one..
It of course depends on the circumstances....

A friend of mine went out with a notorious photographer.. He shagged everything.. Needless to say he was HIV and did not care who he passed on to.
My friend also contracted HIV and also slept around..
A girl in my street whom I knew had a threesome with them.. I wanted to say get tested but as I was not supposed to know that she had the threesome I kept quite...
The years roll on as they do and this girl gets a curable cancer.. But by now her immune system is shot.. She dies at age 33..
At the same time two other people come forward and report the photographer to the police as they too have contracted HIV..
The investigation goes on for ages.. The photographer tries to kill himself but fails.. Eventually he was given. 6years in prison for at least 20 cases...
He gets out next year and will face manslaughter charges for her death..
The girls family who own a restaurant are distraught.. Her father dies of a heart attack a few months after she died..

Yes I should have said something..
It haunts me..

But given what I have learnt I probably would come forward and expose them

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In a scenario like this, one shouldve started sounding the trumpets. Very sad story. But let it haunt you, sometimes no matter what you do the end result would be the same
 
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In a scenario like this, one shouldve started sounding the trumpets. Very sad story. But let it haunt you, sometimes no matter what you do the end result would be the same
I meant to type DONT let it haunt you. (imihaving typing issues on to public forms)
 
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Threesome. :lol: honestly. Its one plus2
Hmm okay. You’re not the first to mention this and I made a change yesterday which made it a hell of a lot worse. Which I then rolled back.
Don’t want to derail the thread but this is important too. Okay am thinking and will get on it.
Is it hard to type, glitchy.... like the lettering goes Pete Tong. More than just auto carrot.
 
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Hmm okay. You’re not the first to mention this and I made a change yesterday which made it a hell of a lot worse. Which I then rolled back.
Don’t want to derail the thread but this is important too. Okay am thinking and will get on it.
Is it hard to type, glitchy.... like the lettering goes Pete Tong. More than just auto carrot.
AndA here how itbi types when ii press thet space button it wasww oko first week whenw ii joined here nown its like thistt interesting reallyr
 
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If you could and had the means, would you expose someone?
Without rules, without 'free speech' loool... would you? Could you?

You knew some stuff. knew some things... would you really expose that person?
Let's say, for example, they did a dirty on you and you had a platform for exposé - would you be that 'one' to do so?

risqué? Or normal progression of human interaction especially when faced with modern day society of online trolls?
Beautiful people, it's over to you................

Honesty tells me the younger me would have Reacted and "Exposed" instead of Rationally Responding to a situation.

Now I can comfortably say I wouldn't Out anyone for Any reason no matter how they've treated me or what they'd done to me. I say this because they're are several people in our life that I could "Out" and it would be disastrous to their lives. The problem is that when you throw a rock in a pond the Ripples travel Far and Wide....
 
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So im going to try a new browser for ss. It seems tobe typing ok. For now. Apologies for distress caused.
 
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Yeah let me know how you get on . I am having tge same problem but @Admin won't belbeli me
XxxXxxbibax
I had another called ECOSIA. so im using that now. Very similar to chrome but search results not good as google. Try it, apparently every search you do helps plant trees. How true I dont know
 
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I had another called ECOSIA. so im using that now. Very similar to chrome but search results not good as google. Try it, apparently every search you do helps plant trees. How true I dont know
And it solvess predictive text?
 
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Wow
This is a really difficult one..
It of course depends on the circumstances....

A friend of mine went out with a notorious photographer.. He shagged everything.. Needless to say he was HIV and did not care who he passed on to.
My friend also contracted HIV and also slept around..
A girl in my street whom I knew had a threesome with them.. I wanted to say get tested but as I was not supposed to know that she had the threesome I kept quite...
The years roll on as they do and this girl gets a curable cancer.. But by now her immune system is shot.. She dies at age 33..
At the same time two other people come forward and report the photographer to the police as they too have contracted HIV..
The investigation goes on for ages.. The photographer tries to kill himself but fails.. Eventually he was given. 6years in prison for at least 20 cases...
He gets out next year and will face manslaughter charges for her death..
The girls family who own a restaurant are distraught.. Her father dies of a heart attack a few months after she died..

Yes I should have said something..
It haunts me..

But given what I have learnt I probably would come forward and expose them

X

Hi Bibas, thank you so much for your post and for you're honesty. It really touched me on so many levels. Firstly the dangers of unprotected sex , all it takes is that one time and that could be the time when you contract HIV. Then if you are sleeping with lots of other people you risk passing it on to them. Also it's not just the person you pass it onto that is affected the lives of parents, children , friends and loved ones of the person are affected as they watch them die from this awful disease if it's not diagnosed in time. There are lots of people who think it's not going to happen to them. Lots of people who are scared about being checked. Please get checked not only for your sake but for others.
Also I really identified with it haunts me. I blamed myself for the death of someone close for years, I should of said this , I didn't do that, unti I got some help and realised that I am responsible for my life. I am not responsible for other people's choices or decisions. Maybe it was that girls responsibility to practice safe sex , maybe it was her responsibility to get checked. It wasn't yours, don't blame yourself love yourself.
I am sorry if I have posted anything that may of hurt or offended you in any way . This post was sent with love. Xx
 
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Honesty tells me the younger me would have Reacted and "Exposed" instead of Rationally Responding to a situation.

Now I can comfortably say I wouldn't Out anyone for Any reason no matter how they've treated me or what they'd done to me. I say this because they're are several people in our life that I could "Out" and it would be disastrous to their lives. The problem is that when you throw a rock in a pond the Ripples travel Far and Wide....
You are so right my friend. karma. It will always bite back... treat others as you expect to be treated. :)
Yeah let me know how you get on . I am having tge same problem but @Admin won't belbeli me
XxxXxxbibax
Ohhh I did Missy, but couldn't kind of work out what was going on. Will sort it don't worry xx
Send my warmest thoughts to Turkey Boy ;) x
 
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Hi Bibas, thank you so much for your post and for you're honesty. It really touched me on so many levels. Firstly the dangers of unprotected sex , all it takes is that one time and that could be the time when you contract HIV. Then if you are sleeping with lots of other people you risk passing it on to them. Also it's not just the person you pass it onto that is affected the lives of parents, children , friends and loved ones of the person are affected as they watch them die from this awful disease if it's not diagnosed in time. There are lots of people who think it's not going to happen to them. Lots of people who are scared about being checked. Please get checked not only for your sake but for others.
Also I really identified with it haunts me. I blamed myself for the death of someone close for years, I should of said this , I didn't do that, unti I got some help and realised that I am responsible for my life. I am not responsible for other people's choices or decisions. Maybe it was that girls responsibility to practice safe sex , maybe it was her responsibility to get checked. It wasn't yours, don't blame yourself love yourself.
I am sorry if I have posted anything that may of hurt or offended you in any way . This post was sent with love. Xx
I know it's directed at @The_Bibas but I'd first of all like to say, you shouldn't have blamed yourself for your friends death okay?
You are right to understand that it's other people's choices and they play the cards they're dealt. Ultimately they are responsible for their own actions and that's that.

It is apt at the moment that you mention that and discuss sexual health.
In this lifestyle, it is SO damned crucial to play safe but also be honest. Don't get comfy because you've met a few times.. and drop the glove. No glove, no love. You don't know who is meeting who and the risks then from not being open, honest and protected are fekin huge. Not just for yourselves, but for your loved ones and for potential meets.
Play safe....
Russian roulette is for fools.
 
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The_Bibas

Hi Bibas, thank you so much for your post and for you're honesty. It really touched me on so many levels. Firstly the dangers of unprotected sex , all it takes is that one time and that could be the time when you contract HIV. Then if you are sleeping with lots of other people you risk passing it on to them. Also it's not just the person you pass it onto that is affected the lives of parents, children , friends and loved ones of the person are affected as they watch them die from this awful disease if it's not diagnosed in time. There are lots of people who think it's not going to happen to them. Lots of people who are scared about being checked. Please get checked not only for your sake but for others.
Also I really identified with it haunts me. I blamed myself for the death of someone close for years, I should of said this , I didn't do that, unti I got some help and realised that I am responsible for my life. I am not responsible for other people's choices or decisions. Maybe it was that girls responsibility to practice safe sex , maybe it was her responsibility to get checked. It wasn't yours, don't blame yourself love yourself.
I am sorry if I have posted anything that may of hurt or offended you in any way . This post was sent with love. Xx
I am not offended . Have I learnt?
Clearly not as I too have had unprotected sex... But i have also been tested .. In truth more people die everyday in road accidents .. Over 2000 people a day.. And that is just in the uk. . Compare that to 500 people a year who die from aids..
Yet I still drive

Xxxbibaxxx
 
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I am not offended . Have I learnt?
Clearly not as I too have had unprotected sex... But i have also been tested .. In truth more people die everyday in road accidents .. Over 2000 people a day.. And that is just in the uk. . Compare that to 500 people a year who die from aids..
Yet I still drive

Xxxbibaxxx
There is that! :whistle: x

Oh and the glitch was fixed within a day or two. x