The FeTiSH SWINGERS 10 Kink Commandments @ all our hosted Events. 1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual. 2. We must always be respectful of our partner’s/playmates safe word (red/yellow/green) and their hard limits. 3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open mind. 4. We must always be polite and ask questions. 5. We must not touch other people's equipment without permission. 6. We must always be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment. 7. We must always be mindful of aftercare. 8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement. 9. We always protect each other’s anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world. 10. Most importantly, we do not forget its about FUN experiences and to have a good and memorable time.