Forceful

[Pearls]

I like to give strangulation

My ex had a fantasy for being tied up and fucked by a stranger against her will..... I fulfilled that fantasy for her (balaclava and cable ties) and we had one of the best sessions I can ever remember

I have just been edged for 8 hours and when Mr A finally decided to give in to my anger and frustration he forced his hand around my throat to hold me down. I was so worked up after so many hours that the restriction of breath just made the orgasm so intense, painful yet amazing in an aggressive way but aggressive can be erotic and it was xx

 

[TogNMuse]

I have just been edged for 8 hours and when Mr A finally decided to give in to my anger and frustration he forced his hand around my throat to hold me down. I was so worked up after so many hours that the restriction of breath just made the orgasm so intense, painful yet amazing in an aggressive way but aggressive can be erotic and it was xx

Sounds hot!

 

[Deleted member 3411]

Some times I (Ste) like being aggressive towards the end. To a great extent I love to be gentle and tender, but when the feeling is right slamming in hard is great. But simulated strangulation? See here I have a problem. Even the suggestion of violence puts me off. I know she (maybe he) wants it, but I just can't pretend to like something I wouldn't do for real. Guess that's why L and I are not into BDSM etc. Too.
I do understand though, comes from feeling what's happening is no longer your decision, that feeling of vulnerability without fear. Being taken and not have to ask or control what happens.

 

[Pearls]

Some times I (Ste) like being aggressive towards the end. To a great extent I love to be gentle and tender, but when the feeling is right slamming in hard is great. But simulated strangulation? See here I have a problem. Even the suggestion of violence puts me off. I know she (maybe he) wants it, but I just can't pretend to like something I wouldn't do for real. Guess that's why L and I are not into BDSM etc. Too.
I do understand though, comes from feeling what's happening is no longer your decision, that feeling of vulnerability without fear. Being taken and not have to ask or control what happens.

You do have to have complete trust in your partner for strangulation. It’s not so much the force but lack of oxygen intensifies the orgasm if done correctly. Saying that I just love a certain amount of aggression and pain.

 

[Stesnaughtyangel]

i like it not for-the cant breathe more for the restraint - yes i trust my partner and others have done-it too me i liked it but-we had an open dialogue so we knew what we wanted and expected and the limitations x

 

[Deleted member 3411]

Thing is, I wonder some times if those who like this see those like me who woukd have issues as... timid. I never do anything I would not feel comfortable with so will never try.

 

[Stesnaughtyangel]

Thing is, I wonder some times if those who like this see those like me who woukd have issues as... timid. I never do anything I would not feel comfortable with so will never try.

i think thats important tho you no your likes dislikes and sex with partner or others should be enjoyable if it makes u feel uneasy then it’s not something for you. Xxx it’s good to know your preferences xxx

 

[Pearls]

Thing is, I wonder some times if those who like this see those like me who woukd have issues as... timid. I never do anything I would not feel comfortable with so will never try.

Not at all. It’s down to what you enjoy and if it feels right then why not. X

 

[Deleted member 3411]

I never was a fan of that saying "You gotta try everything once otherwise how do you know". We enjoy lots of fun as we are, we just hope to enjoy more of it

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I tend to go with what makes that person happy and enjoyable, over what I am uncomfortable with, to make it pleasurable.
But that has a limit too.
It’s all about understanding, trust, control, agreements and communication.
I don’t think this is something you can do with a one off situation. X

 

[Deleted member 3411]

I tend to go with what makes that person happy and enjoyable, over what I am uncomfortable with, to make it pleasurable.
But that has a limit too.
It’s all about understanding, trust, control, agreements and communication.
I don’t think this is something you can do with a one off situation. X

Trust can't be there with an almost stranger...

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Trust can't be there with an almost stranger...

Hence why I said this -

I don’t think this is something you can do with a one off situation. X