Frustrating

[Pearls]

When people keep messing you about?
Has this happened to you?

Do you keep trying or block and move on?

Is it a case of ‘real life gets in the way’

 

[Ragdoll]

I think people need to be honest, sometimes you can get on and have a good night out but you don’t want to play with them. You can remain social swinging friends.
I also think there are also people who are time wasters and picture collectors, always going to do it, but never do.
There are genuine times people struggle, like if you have to make child care arrangements, and regular hotels might not be affordable for some.
My advice is take it on a case by case basis, and follow your gut.

 

[TherLegs]

When people keep messing you about?
Has this happened to you?

Do you keep trying or block and move on?

Is it a case of ‘real life gets in the way’

Unfortunately getting messed about seems to be part of swinging and it happens too often. Many are fakes who only want sexy chat or pictures and are never going to meet and others are probably the single married people who suddenly find they can't meet probably because their other half has other plans for that day.

We usually just move on and it's also why we no longer spend time actively looking for others.