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Fussy / Choosy

10 August 2021
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I think the anyone who will have me sorts the fussy bit out since that narrows it down before I even get to weigh in ? , I'd not do anything with anyone I wasn't comfortable with though, if there is an attraction there then yes, if there is a connection there then bonus. I think 'in the sack' as a way of saying it sets the tone for the question though, as I think there are different types of intimacy when giving yourself to someone.
 

MOTM

18 July 2015
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Very fussy as you know, I know people preach about connecting in this scene but the only connection I have is with my husband and children, I just need to like a person and if we giggle about the same stuff then it’s all good. I can count on less than ten fingers how many meets we’ve had and am happy the way we’ve done things, not many have the same approach but it’s worked for us to keep a good balance. And at the end of the day we are simply talking about sex, that’s it. Everything else is between us.
 
19 March 2015
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Gorgeous xx
 

MOTM

9 November 2015
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Are you more choosy than me then? Because I don't believe in forming a "connection" to have to have sex with someone? X
So chatting for me forms a part of getting to know someone, you can’t always tell what some is actually like as recent times have shown …
As a single it’s probably different your part of a couple so this is extra out side of your relationship so your connection would always be to your significant other ..
 
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MOTM

18 July 2015
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Is it me being naive and new to be assuming there is a difference between sex the animalistic rutting with someone and then having sex with a connection to someone special?
Connection bla blah. It’s sex ffs, if you want connection, join a dating site in it. Connect with others is something else, you are joining like minded people but as for “ I have to have a connection with someone”
 
10 August 2021
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Connection bla blah. It’s sex ffs, if you want connection, join a dating site in it. Connect with others is something else, you are joining like minded people but as for “ I have to have a connection with someone”
I didn't say I mind either, just like to think both can exist maybe because I aint had enough experience xd
 

MOTM

9 November 2015
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Connection bla blah. It’s sex ffs, if you want connection, join a dating site in it. Connect with others is something else, you are joining like minded people but as for “ I have to have a connection with someone”
So basically everyone is going to jump in the sack with everyone because it’s sex ….
 
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MOTM

18 July 2015
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Perfect example, lady joins. No avatar or media. You have no idea what she looks like and I’ve seen guys dive all over her asking to meet and so on, then preach about connections in a thread to charm other ladies who believe they have to have it. It happens all the time. It’s bollox in it from that example alone.
 

MOTM

18 July 2015
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I should add that usually happens with newbies trying all angles.
 
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