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Pearls

18 July 2015
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After some steamy chats, flirting, perusing each other’s media ? you make a date to meet :sneaky:

What would you do if after getting down and dirty it wasn’t doing it for you and thought I can’t meet him/ her/ them again but the other party had a great time and asks to meet you again ?

What do you do?

Would you tell them the truth? ?
Would you tell a liccle fib like you're emigrating to the Congo? ?
Would you ghost them? ?

Over to you naughty kinksters ??
 
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Pearls said:
After some steamy chats, flirting, perusing each other’s media ? you make a date to meet :sneaky:

What would you do if after getting down and dirty it wasn’t doing it for you and thought I can’t meet him/ her/ them again but the other party had a great time and asks to meet you again ?

What do you do?

Would you tell them the truth? ?
Would you tell a liccle fib like you're emigrating to the Congo? ?
Would you ghost them? ?

Over to you naughty kinksters ??
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My view is open and honest. Not good to lead people on with more expectations ???
Being left waiting and hoping not good ???
Not all meets lead to more naughty times and others do to right naughty meetings to get more dirty and horny ???....
Xxx :0)) T
 
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I know honesty is the best policy but I don't think I could tell somebody we didn't enjoy the meet..it just sounds so harsh and I know it's wrong to let people think you would want to meet them again..I think if that happened to us and someone actually said that personally for me my confidence would be that shattered I would probably quit the lifestyle..I know everybody isn't everyone's cup of tea and I get that..I know we all like different things but I would hate to think I had destroyed someone's confidence to the point where they stop swinging..this is a tricky one because I had my confidence shattered after a meet that went tits up shall we say..I was blaming myself and felt really shit for nearly a week after..I was contemplating leaving the site then after 4 days we received a message explaining everything and it turns out it was nothing to do with me..but I would hate to make someone feel the way I did so yes probably wouldn't be that honest and just say we're busy for the next few months with family commitments..which to be fair is everyone's problem..we all have busy lives..W.. :tiphat:
 
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Maybe I'm just too soft for this lifestyle.. Perhaps I should be honest with people rather than mess anyone about with excuses.. Can I just say though it's only happened once and we were honest with them.. :palm:.. W..
 
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Pearls said:
After some steamy chats, flirting, perusing each other’s media ? you make a date to meet :sneaky:

What would you do if after getting down and dirty it wasn’t doing it for you and thought I can’t meet him/ her/ them again but the other party had a great time and asks to meet you again ?

What do you do?

Would you tell them the truth? ?
Would you tell a liccle fib like you're emigrating to the Congo? ?
Would you ghost them? ?

Over to you naughty kinksters ??
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Open and honest is the best way to be. If its not tickling your pickle then theres no point in leading them on. It would knock my confidence if it was to happen to me but to be honest, you're not going to like, or find everyone attractive, so I would just put it down to experience plus I would hope that they would appreciate the honesty, as would I S xxxx
 
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Pearls said:
After some steamy chats, flirting, perusing each other’s media ? you make a date to meet :sneaky:

What would you do if after getting down and dirty it wasn’t doing it for you and thought I can’t meet him/ her/ them again but the other party had a great time and asks to meet you again ?

What do you do?

Would you tell them the truth? ?
Would you tell a liccle fib like you're emigrating to the Congo? ?
Would you ghost them? ?

Over to you naughty kinksters ??
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Hmmm. Well, honesty is best policy as per. And if that happened, I’d have to be honest and say that while I / we enjoyed that particular evening, we don’t feel there is a future compatibility. However we had an amazing time and made some superb memories.

Now, if I’ve said this to anyone before please realise this is purely an example ermmm..... ? ? :eek:
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It'll cost ya ;);););)
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Pearls said:
Name your terms :yeahbaby:
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Get a room you two ?

we insist. ??
 
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Lips_Pearls said:
Hmmm. Well, honesty is best policy as per. And if that happened, I’d have to be honest and say that while I / we enjoyed that particular evening, we don’t feel there is a future compatibility. However we had an amazing time and made some superb memories.

Now, if I’ve said this to anyone before please realise this is purely an example ermmm..... ? ? :eek:


Get a room you two ?

we insist. ??
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Ommmmm ???xx
 
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Lips_Pearls said:
Hmmm. Well, honesty is best policy as per. And if that happened, I’d have to be honest and say that while I / we enjoyed that particular evening, we don’t feel there is a future compatibility. However we had an amazing time and made some superb memories.

Now, if I’ve said this to anyone before please realise this is purely an example ermmm..... ? ? :eek:


Get a room you two ?

we insist. ??
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King size???? ? ? ?
 
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