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Guidance

  • Thread starter Pearls
  • Start date 4 October 2019
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4 October 2019
  • #1
Pearls

Pearls

Looking to meet
  1. Lady
You are using the site as a
Lady
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
I get messages off new members on a daily basis asking for advice and tips on where to start, most because they are new to swinging and some just new to the site. So I thought I would put together a little guide which if anyone needs it you can copy and share with anyone who needs some help.

Pearls guide to Swinging :D
Ok so first welcome to the start of a very exciting journey of complete and utter filth and debauchery. :whistle:

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So couples you’ve talked about it, singles you’ve thought about it and now you have reached this site.

All a bit daunting and a little nerve racking but not to fear first of all, we were all in the same boat once. I think :D so chill.

Once you’ve had a little perv about the place the first thing is to make your little corner a bit snazzy.
Pop up an avatar, add some media and a little information about you, be creative so you appeal to others.

Pics- It doesn’t have to be a face pic but I would suggest one.
Couples- if you want to meet another couple then please add photos of you both, us girls want to see the hubby or partner too.
Guys- we have seen a dick, don’t be one and add twenty photos of different angles of your pride and joy. Ladies love a well dressed man and a good butt and chest shot.
Ladies- I think less is more works with a few peeks.

Information
“Horny and waiting”
“Come say hi”
“Here’s my number”
Just isn’t going to do it. Have a look at other profiles to see some inspiration, be yourself and show others who you are. Trust me it works.

Right then you are looking good and ready to mingle. :p

I always say to people
“You get out of this what you put in”

Enjoy the site, use it to your advantage, there is so much available for you, use that, but most of all enjoy it. If you love your vanilla social media account then can you imagine how you would enjoy an adult only version of that. :sneaky:

Messaging
Single guys, we fully support you but don’t be a dick
“Hi wanna chat”
Isn’t going to cut it in your first message.
Sending a dick pick without asking permission is an instant ban if reported.

I once had a message off a guy. This is what he wrote

Good day to you
I just wanted to pop by and ask if I could borrow some sugar seeing as we are now new neighbours. If you don’t have any then I’ll just have to walk a mile down the road to buy some but it’s pouring with rain and I don’t have a waterproof jacket. The thought of being wet through and returning home to no heating is a little off putting.
A small cup should do it.
Or should I prepare for the worst.
Many thanks

That message caught my eye.

Couples
Both should be involved, if both are meeting then both should chat at some point.

Fakes
You will be caught so why go through the unnecessary task of finding photos of someone else and breaking the law.
Be you
If you are a guy
Don’t pretend to be a lady or couple just for attention. You know you won’t be able to meet so why be a plonka.
This is why a photo verification is so important but not always fool proof but fakes are always found out one way or another.
If you are a single person here but have a partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, hubby or wife at home then who are we to judge but don’t lie about it to others and pop it in your info.
Dangerous situations can occur by lying and we have witnessed it so don’t be idiots.
Honesty works.

Socials
Attend them.
You don’t have to go to every one or every club event but try to get to one, you will not only make friends but have a fabulous time.
We all have commitments but always avoiding meeting and events due to
Work
Kids
Babysitters
Finances
Etc
Isn’t going to get you anywhere and if this is a constant problem for you then ask yourself is this journey for you.
There's no real reason why you can't meet someone from the same city/town or village, even if just for a coffee so you can put faces to names and at least verify them!
Verifications
Give a verification if you have met, why not?
The system is there to show if these meets are good or bad but most of all real. I never understand why people don’t use the system. It’s for the benefits of others.

This is swinging which is about meeting others for sex. :sneaky:

Above all, have fun.
We all have every day life, doom and gloom but isn’t it great when you can forget about that for a little bit by logging on here.
Join in the forums, make some shit thread about whatever you like and have fun. :p

Ok so there you have it sexy peeps.
Pearls top tips and advice.
Hope this helps and happy swinging. :D
 
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4 October 2019
  • #2
Pearls

Pearls

Looking to meet
  1. Lady
You are using the site as a
Lady
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
If you have any questions then feel free to ask.
Please have a read and hopefully it will help (y)
 
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4 October 2019
  • #3
Pearls

Pearls

Looking to meet
  1. Lady
You are using the site as a
Lady
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
From a personal note
Ladies, gents, couples
In my book we are all equal
We have met beautiful people from all sexes so don’t be thinking because of who you are you are above everyone else.
Uberswingers who have contracts for info
Ladies who ignore you as they feel they are Gods gift
Bad manners
Ignorance
Have a big one

All these are not what we look for and we are all the same so be nice to others even if you don’t want to meet them, you can still be nice.
 
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4 October 2019
  • #4
Stew

Stew

PV
Sprtr
Age
67
City
Lincoln
Looking to meet
  1. Lady
  2. Couple-MF
  3. Couple-FF
You are using the site as a
Gent
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
Age
65
A great piece of work pearls much needed and I hope it’s heeded
 
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4 October 2019
  • #5
Pearls

Pearls

Looking to meet
  1. Lady
You are using the site as a
Lady
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
Stew said:
A great piece of work pearls much needed and I hope it’s heeded
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Piece of cake, it only took 6hours :eek::D
 
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4 October 2019
  • #6
Stew

Stew

PV
Sprtr
Age
67
City
Lincoln
Looking to meet
  1. Lady
  2. Couple-MF
  3. Couple-FF
You are using the site as a
Gent
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
Age
65
Pearls said:
Piece of cake, it only took 6hours :eek::D
Click to expand...
Bit quick then !! :whistle:
 
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17 October 2019
  • #7
The_Usual_Horny_Couple

The_Usual_Horny_Couple

PV
Age
42
City
Wakefield
Looking to meet
  1. Lady
  2. Gent
  3. Couple-MF
You are using the site as a
Couple-MF
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
  3. Curious
  4. Bi-Playful
Age
40
What a great article xx
 
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17 October 2019
  • #8
Pearls

Pearls

Looking to meet
  1. Lady
You are using the site as a
Lady
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
The_Usual_Horny_Couple said:
What a great article xx
Click to expand...
Thanks both. I switched my brain on that day :rofl:
 
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16 November 2019
  • #9
Dangerous690

Dangerous690

PV
Sprtr
Looking to meet
  1. Lady
  2. Couple-MF
  3. Couple-FF
  4. Couple-TV-&-F
  5. Couple-TS-&-F
You are using the site as a
Gent
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. Curious
  3. Bi-Playful
Age
53
Pearls said:
Piece of cake, it only took 6hours :eek::D
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🤣😂🤣😂
 
18 November 2019
  • #10
Pearls

Pearls

Looking to meet
  1. Lady
You are using the site as a
Lady
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
Pearls said:
Thanks both. I switched my brain on that day :rofl:
Click to expand...
May I add, if anyone wants to add anything that offers any help to others then feel free to add to this ;)
 
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