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I have heard many times that couples often experience feeling even closer to each other when they swing. I would love to hear from those who experience this... Would you share or try to explain how/why this particular activity with others has brought you closer together?
Agreed... ^^We all know about the naughty side & why we want to swing but when we actually do it we're potentially putting our relationship on the line, initially anyway, so you're putting the ultimate trust in your partner to be intimate with someone else but just as an addition to what you have already.
When it works the reward from giving that trust & the trust being kept strengthens the bond that you already have.
That's just my initial thoughts about it, I'm sure others will add more
Great response, thank you for taking the time to replyWe all know about the naughty side & why we want to swing but when we actually do it we're potentially putting our relationship on the line, initially anyway, so you're putting the ultimate trust in your partner to be intimate with someone else but just as an addition to what you have already.
When it works the reward from giving that trust & the trust being kept strengthens the bond that you already have.
That's just my initial thoughts about it, I'm sure others will add more
Anything for a thread of yours VixyGreat response, thank you for taking the time to reply
We're both highly sexed and had affairs, one night stands, etc, when married to our exes - Rose eventually with her husband's knowledge and toleration, but Geoff always discreetly. We discussed this when we became an item and it didn't look as though conventional faithfulness was going to be a realistic option in our relationship, so very early on we decided to try swinging. For us, it's the perfect solution. We have fabulous loving sex together and recreational sex with other people, mainly together and with no need for deceit. It's not because either of us feel something is lacking in our relationship or in the performance of the other.
We both discovered an unexpected extra - when watching the other one with someone else, our reaction is not jealousy but tenderness. Hard to explain if you don't feel that way, but seeing the other one let go and get deep into sexual pleasure is beautiful, something you can't see fully when just the two of you are doing it. The morning after a swinging session (unless it's a sleepover, then later) we lie in bed and discuss what we felt about things, and if we were in separate rooms, what we did. That's very bonding and ends up with loving sex, 'reclaiming' ourselves as a couple after sharing
That's lovely. Hope you continue to have more memorable nights xWe seem to have come to swinging from a different direction as we have both lived very much faithful to each other lives until we decided to try swinging and loved it. We both love to see each other having a good time and get a real sexual boost from it. We never need to have sexual secrets from each other and whilst we have tried many things we still have a few things we are looking forward to trying real soon and that can only make us stronger and stronger together
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