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Is it cheating if it's not shagging?
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This is similar to how I see it: if you know it would upset your partner and you won't tell them for fear of upsetting them, then you're doing something wrong.
It isn't necessarily cheating, but it's shady as fuck.
Beyond that, the rules on what defines cheating is up to an individual couple to decide and adhere to.
The Oxford English defines the word as "a person whose sexual behaviour is not thought to be normal or acceptable by most people"
I would have thought that most people do it in different ways so really nobody is 'normal' and we are all perverts!
Another thing is, which person decided what is 'normal' sex and what isn't? Probably some fuckwit who lived under a rock for most of their life.
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Course it’s cheating. Mostly men but women too, the only difference is, women are a bit more savvy. Men don’t realise they give the game away.
Cheating is cheating and when caught all you’re doing is destroying lives.
When it comes to meeting a cheater, you are playing with fire which is something I can never get my head around, there are plenty of decent people in this scene who are genuine and single. I would have to ask myself as a wife, how would I feel if I found out that his nibs had met someone behind my back!
How would I feel if he was getting up to no good without shagging?
Same hurt.
So my message to married men or women, think of the person you were at one point mad for and don’t be a twat. ?
Cheating is cheating and when caught all you’re doing is destroying lives.
When it comes to meeting a cheater, you are playing with fire which is something I can never get my head around, there are plenty of decent people in this scene who are genuine and single. I would have to ask myself as a wife, how would I feel if I found out that his nibs had met someone behind my back!
How would I feel if he was getting up to no good without shagging?
Same hurt.
So my message to married men or women, think of the person you were at one point mad for and don’t be a twat. ?
After reading Pearls post I would like to add a caveat to my earlier comment. I have always been faithful to my partners and totally up front about my flirting and porn watching and I have never once had sex with anyone else while in a relationship outside of swinging with V ?
N xxx
I am shit at flirting and just say what I'm thinking. Debs is used to it. She'll make comments to me about people like "I'd shag him" which means "please can I shag him and will you set it up so I can pretend I'm only going along with it?.
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Being single think it’s doesn’t actually apply to me but if I was in a relationship flirting behind someone’s back definitely would not happen … hopefully we might watch porn together ?…
In a swinging situation flirting with attached people is part of scene so yes that would happen …
Attached people joining this type of site is fine , but if they actually take part without a partners knowledge then yes that’s cheating ..