Chinese whisper that is. Gossip. Is it prevalent in the scene? It can be fun but can also be extremely damaging too can’t it.
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What say ye? X
It’s as common as cliques, no more, no less. If you’re a regular at a club, or on a site, that doesn’t discourage it (even subtly) then it’ll occur.Chinese whisper that is. Gossip. Is it prevalent in the scene? It can be fun but can also be extremely damaging too can’t it.
What say ye? X
Well, if one believes that swinging is a decent analogy to life in general (you get a pretty random element in here: ages, looks, types, etc) as long as there’s gossip in general, there’s gossip here. As there is in any small group.Well, some things coming to light recently have shown that gossip is actually quite common. More than perhaps most may realise... Same as all walks of life really isn’t it.
Very good point well madeMyth or not but
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Chinese whisper are prev
Yes that’s very true.Myth or not but
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Chinese whisper are prevelent in all walks of life, swinging is no exception.
Agreed.I suppose this is a slight deviation from the question but hopefully still relevant:
Is it gossiping to be made privy to information about people who might prove awkward/difficult to meet?
I’ve been told things about people and, whilst I would always wait to meet someone personally before making an absolute decision, it has changed what situations I would meet under I.e. in a group setting as opposed to one on one.
So, is that gossiping? Or is that looking out for someone?
To answer the question, I see gossiping as a negative thing to do which can really damage someone and generally creates a low energy environment which aren’t fun to be part of. I think we’ve probably all been guilty of it. What other people say about you can be useful info to have but it shouldn’t define who you are and what you think about yourself.
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